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I have a court date in two weeks - taking my ex of 8 years, to court for Support Contempt. 8 Counts. ($12,000 in Support owed) This is the second time I've done this....last year on the court date, I was handed a check by him to cover what he owed.....I've had my attorney for all of the 8 years to help handle whatever comes up with my ex, which has been many things. This history is too long....So, back in July 04 when I spoke to my attorney about filing this Contempt, he showed a bit of hesitation due to my "ex's circumstances..." However, after 8 years of dealing with my ex, my attorney should understand all that has transpired and be on MY side and not be sympathetic towards him. No matter what the circumstances. My ex has pulled so many things and has been sactioned by the court many times for his behavior. So, when my attorney expressed some hesitation towards the Contempt, I asked if it was because of what the Judge might think....and he most definitly said no. The Judge WILL NOT care whatsoever of his circumstances....Judge "G" is not sympathetic towards theses things that your ex is going through. So, I said, okay, proceed.....(Circumstances are this....ex moved to Texas one year ago...brought along his business with him - hiding it under his wifes name to I couldn't find out, claims he's not doing well...filed Chapter 13 recently and put my support on the claim....his wife had a brain turmor that was detected in the end of July...therefore, nothing to do with his lack of payment - it was benign and is doing fine now....just some history here)....So we proceed, he gets served. The ex's attorney sends a message to my attorney asking for it to be "continued..." My attorney said no.....So now, my attorney and I are discussing issues and he now asks me AGAIN, if I'm sure I want to go though with this Contempt because it might send my EX over the edge....his exact words. My ex has been over the edge for years....this all is nothing new to my attorney or me. So I ask if it's because of what he feels for my ex or if it's what the Judge will think.....remember I asked this earlier in July....and NOW he's saying that it's because ...quote....but I know that his circumstances are going to have an impact on our judge, and possibly our
chances of success on October 26....unquote.....Now, what in the world am I to think of this??? Why didn't he tell me this back in July when we started this whole thing? Quite honestly, I think something is up, but I cannot begin to think what. I have a call into him as well as a response to his email, but wondered if anyone out there could give me a clue as to how to know when you're attorney is messing with you and why would he want to? What should my questions be to him?
Thank you for your suggestions.....
I have a court date in two weeks - taking my ex of 8 years, to court for Support Contempt. 8 Counts. ($12,000 in Support owed) This is the second time I've done this....last year on the court date, I was handed a check by him to cover what he owed.....I've had my attorney for all of the 8 years to help handle whatever comes up with my ex, which has been many things. This history is too long....So, back in July 04 when I spoke to my attorney about filing this Contempt, he showed a bit of hesitation due to my "ex's circumstances..." However, after 8 years of dealing with my ex, my attorney should understand all that has transpired and be on MY side and not be sympathetic towards him. No matter what the circumstances. My ex has pulled so many things and has been sactioned by the court many times for his behavior. So, when my attorney expressed some hesitation towards the Contempt, I asked if it was because of what the Judge might think....and he most definitly said no. The Judge WILL NOT care whatsoever of his circumstances....Judge "G" is not sympathetic towards theses things that your ex is going through. So, I said, okay, proceed.....(Circumstances are this....ex moved to Texas one year ago...brought along his business with him - hiding it under his wifes name to I couldn't find out, claims he's not doing well...filed Chapter 13 recently and put my support on the claim....his wife had a brain turmor that was detected in the end of July...therefore, nothing to do with his lack of payment - it was benign and is doing fine now....just some history here)....So we proceed, he gets served. The ex's attorney sends a message to my attorney asking for it to be "continued..." My attorney said no.....So now, my attorney and I are discussing issues and he now asks me AGAIN, if I'm sure I want to go though with this Contempt because it might send my EX over the edge....his exact words. My ex has been over the edge for years....this all is nothing new to my attorney or me. So I ask if it's because of what he feels for my ex or if it's what the Judge will think.....remember I asked this earlier in July....and NOW he's saying that it's because ...quote....but I know that his circumstances are going to have an impact on our judge, and possibly our
chances of success on October 26....unquote.....Now, what in the world am I to think of this??? Why didn't he tell me this back in July when we started this whole thing? Quite honestly, I think something is up, but I cannot begin to think what. I have a call into him as well as a response to his email, but wondered if anyone out there could give me a clue as to how to know when you're attorney is messing with you and why would he want to? What should my questions be to him?
Thank you for your suggestions.....