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ginalynn35

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What is the name of your state? ga
okay,here the deal..I have a son that has all his life fought depression and suches ( medicaided off an on) by 3 differant docs since he was 9 yrs. old. okay as he got older he got worse and started refussing to take his meds (cause various mood changes in him) at age 16 he got his g-friend pregnant.the ran off to another state with her dad and got married(w/o my concent) I did try to have it anuled but i could not due in was legal ok.here's the deal.He is now 17 , wont take meds and does the most stupid things before thinging them through.well...he came home in april told me he joined the army..I went off on the recruiter and told him every thing,even gave him the meds he was supposed to be on.Still did me no good,he said he was married and did not need my concent,my son told him he used to take the meds but did not need them any more (wrong)he just wont take them(prozac-ritillin).My son was all excited,they told him he would be making 6 figure money and you know the deal( he's 17 and believed it all no matter what anyone told him).due his medical issues he does not think like we do (normal),the docs have told me he will never mature beyond the age of a normal 15 yr, old..so i faced it along time ago i would always have to look out for him and care for him.ok he went to fort sil in june was there less than 1 day,,he called me at 12:30 am crying on the phone,he was have one of his break down spells and was loosing it fast.he told me he was in a closet and snuck to call and he was begging me to come get him.i am a good 900 miles away and freaking out,because i know what will happen to him once he looses touch with reality,so i acted fast and had my husband stay on the line with him,i used the cell phone to call his recruitor and tell him some one had to get to him fast and where he was at at that time,he put me through to his commander or who ever,i told him the deal,well while i was on the line they found him.they told me he did not talk conhereant to them and they was gonna put him on suicide watch for the night and ask me could i come and bring his meds and they would see about getting him released out so i could care for him.i explained i was 900 miles away but yes i would leave right then and get there as soon as i could,by this time its 3:30 in the morning.i had to make arrangements for my other kids so i did not leave until 7:30 the next morning.i was going through arkansas and got a call from my son again,this time he was using a pay phone and had no idea where he was at.i told him to stay put and i would find him.so i called back the number that should up on my caller id and ask where i had called to and how i get there.he had walked almost 60 miles from where he was at before he came to reality and realized he had lost it again.i ask the lady if she see him there any place and she found him.i again told him to stay there i would find him but i was gonna be hours before i could get there.mean while his commander calls my cell to tell me he is missing was not at formation.i very ugly ask him HOW DID YOU LOOSE SOMEONE THATS ON SUICIDE WATCH?he said he is not sure how it happened .well cute this short...He is awol..okay...I talked to a lawyer they wont $7500.00 just to go with him back there to solve this issue,,and he tells me it might take 2 months at best..well guess what ,,my son will kill his self...he can not be confined and left alone...so we are screwed...the commander tells my he never made it into the full reception,that he has not gotten fulling in processed yet so that has to be dealt with before and type of out process can if any (his words).????any advice,,or maybe a cheaper lawyer??i have done my home work,,i know the full deal and its penalties so you do not gotta tell me all that,,,i have just not found a case where this happen within less than 24 hours,,how do they deal with it,,same as other?and yes he is getting treatment as i write this and has been since that day.
ginaWhat is the name of your state?
 


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ginalynn35 said:
What is the name of your state? ga
okay,here the deal..I have a son that has all his life fought depression and suches ( medicaided off an on) by 3 differant docs since he was 9 yrs. old. okay as he got older he got worse and started refussing to take his meds (cause various mood changes in him) at age 16 he got his g-friend pregnant.the ran off to another state with her dad and got married(w/o my concent) I did try to have it anuled but i could not due in was legal ok.here's the deal.He is now 17 , wont take meds and does the most stupid things before thinging them through.well...he came home in april told me he joined the army..I went off on the recruiter and told him every thing,even gave him the meds he was supposed to be on.Still did me no good,he said he was married and did not need my concent,my son told him he used to take the meds but did not need them any more (wrong)he just wont take them(prozac-ritillin).My son was all excited,they told him he would be making 6 figure money and you know the deal( he's 17 and believed it all no matter what anyone told him).due his medical issues he does not think like we do (normal),the docs have told me he will never mature beyond the age of a normal 15 yr, old..so i faced it along time ago i would always have to look out for him and care for him.ok he went to fort sil in june was there less than 1 day,,he called me at 12:30 am crying on the phone,he was have one of his break down spells and was loosing it fast.he told me he was in a closet and snuck to call and he was begging me to come get him.i am a good 900 miles away and freaking out,because i know what will happen to him once he looses touch with reality,so i acted fast and had my husband stay on the line with him,i used the cell phone to call his recruitor and tell him some one had to get to him fast and where he was at at that time,he put me through to his commander or who ever,i told him the deal,well while i was on the line they found him.they told me he did not talk conhereant to them and they was gonna put him on suicide watch for the night and ask me could i come and bring his meds and they would see about getting him released out so i could care for him.i explained i was 900 miles away but yes i would leave right then and get there as soon as i could,by this time its 3:30 in the morning.i had to make arrangements for my other kids so i did not leave until 7:30 the next morning.i was going through arkansas and got a call from my son again,this time he was using a pay phone and had no idea where he was at.i told him to stay put and i would find him.so i called back the number that should up on my caller id and ask where i had called to and how i get there.he had walked almost 60 miles from where he was at before he came to reality and realized he had lost it again.i ask the lady if she see him there any place and she found him.i again told him to stay there i would find him but i was gonna be hours before i could get there.mean while his commander calls my cell to tell me he is missing was not at formation.i very ugly ask him HOW DID YOU LOOSE SOMEONE THATS ON SUICIDE WATCH?he said he is not sure how it happened .well cute this short...He is awol..okay...I talked to a lawyer they wont $7500.00 just to go with him back there to solve this issue,,and he tells me it might take 2 months at best..well guess what ,,my son will kill his self...he can not be confined and left alone...so we are screwed...the commander tells my he never made it into the full reception,that he has not gotten fulling in processed yet so that has to be dealt with before and type of out process can if any (his words).????any advice,,or maybe a cheaper lawyer??i have done my home work,,i know the full deal and its penalties so you do not gotta tell me all that,,,i have just not found a case where this happen within less than 24 hours,,how do they deal with it,,same as other?and yes he is getting treatment as i write this and has been since that day.
ginaWhat is the name of your state?
You could have him turn himself into the local VA hospital for treatment.
 

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