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Husband's daughter and Ex live in NJ. He lives in another state. Daughter is 21 and in college. He has paid cs and contributes to college. Never late.
Communication between daughter and father almost none. Relationship bad. In the last week he has tried calling daughter, no answer (caller id), when he blocks number, daughter answers and when he speaks, she hangs up. Ex has not returned his calls either.
He is wondering if this is a basis for maybe getting cs stopped. He wants to keep her on health insurance until she is 23, as that is when insurance company will no longer keep her on. Right now she has to be full time student.
Daughter was supposed to graduate college May 2007, but from what he understands, it may be Dec 2007 before she is done. (She has changed majors several times) He paid 1/3 of summer school last year and 1/2 this summer. He has asked what is going on with school, he gets the same reply from ex and daughter "I don't know, too soon to tell".
New semester starts Sept. and they will want his portion of the money. I suggested he write a letter to ex and daughter asking very specific questions or no money will be given for this semester. In divorce papers all it states is that both parents contribute to college and daughter has to get student loans, grants, etc.
He was told to motion for reduced cs, but was curious if he will have to fill out CIS (I think that is what it is called)? His income has gone up since divorce and there have been no modifications to cs at all. His ex makes more than he does. He says he is tired of being a wallet/atm and not knowing what is going on in her life. Daughter is very nasty to father when they spoke in the past. No fathers day card or birthday card or phone calls. He always sends to her and puts money into her account for b-day and xmas.
He doesn't want to rock the boat with only a year and a half to go, but getting tired of being treated like crap. And worried that if he tries to get cs stopped, ex will take him back and get cs raised because he makes more money now than he did at time of divorce. Ex called a few months ago wanting more money because she is paying daughters car note, car insurance, cell phone, credit cards and when daughter is at school, ex doesn't make daughter work so she is giving money to daughter. Ex says what she gets in cs is not helping for those bills. He told her take him back to court that cs is not for cars, phones etc. (He does pays 1/3 of car insurance and ex pays the rest, she feels daughter not ready to take on all that responsibility yet. Daughter does work part time this summer but also going to summer school).
Is getting someone emancipated and ending cs the same thing?
Any suggestions?
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Husband's daughter and Ex live in NJ. He lives in another state. Daughter is 21 and in college. He has paid cs and contributes to college. Never late.
Communication between daughter and father almost none. Relationship bad. In the last week he has tried calling daughter, no answer (caller id), when he blocks number, daughter answers and when he speaks, she hangs up. Ex has not returned his calls either.
He is wondering if this is a basis for maybe getting cs stopped. He wants to keep her on health insurance until she is 23, as that is when insurance company will no longer keep her on. Right now she has to be full time student.
Daughter was supposed to graduate college May 2007, but from what he understands, it may be Dec 2007 before she is done. (She has changed majors several times) He paid 1/3 of summer school last year and 1/2 this summer. He has asked what is going on with school, he gets the same reply from ex and daughter "I don't know, too soon to tell".
New semester starts Sept. and they will want his portion of the money. I suggested he write a letter to ex and daughter asking very specific questions or no money will be given for this semester. In divorce papers all it states is that both parents contribute to college and daughter has to get student loans, grants, etc.
He was told to motion for reduced cs, but was curious if he will have to fill out CIS (I think that is what it is called)? His income has gone up since divorce and there have been no modifications to cs at all. His ex makes more than he does. He says he is tired of being a wallet/atm and not knowing what is going on in her life. Daughter is very nasty to father when they spoke in the past. No fathers day card or birthday card or phone calls. He always sends to her and puts money into her account for b-day and xmas.
He doesn't want to rock the boat with only a year and a half to go, but getting tired of being treated like crap. And worried that if he tries to get cs stopped, ex will take him back and get cs raised because he makes more money now than he did at time of divorce. Ex called a few months ago wanting more money because she is paying daughters car note, car insurance, cell phone, credit cards and when daughter is at school, ex doesn't make daughter work so she is giving money to daughter. Ex says what she gets in cs is not helping for those bills. He told her take him back to court that cs is not for cars, phones etc. (He does pays 1/3 of car insurance and ex pays the rest, she feels daughter not ready to take on all that responsibility yet. Daughter does work part time this summer but also going to summer school).
Is getting someone emancipated and ending cs the same thing?
Any suggestions?
ThanksWhat is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?
