scarlett1033
Junior Member
Hello All. I have a situation that I hope someone can shed some light on for me. In April of this year, my father-in-law murdered my mother-in-law (in NJ). He is now in jail awaiting trial. My MIL was in the teacher's union and my FIL was named the beneficiary to recieve death benefits. My husband and I met with a lawyer who is giving us the idea that he and his brother can recieve those benefits before a conviction is made. However, I called the probate court in the county in which my MIL resided and they told me that no judge will award benefits before a conviction is made. My husband told this to the lawyer and the lawyer told him that the people at the probate court have no idea what they are talking about. So, who should we believe? Also, I don't know if this matters, but my FIL was also named to be executor of the will and he is waiving his rights to that, so that my husband can be executor.
Can someone please give us some advice because we really have no clue as to what should be happening. Thanks!
Can someone please give us some advice because we really have no clue as to what should be happening. Thanks!