Utah takes domestic violence pretty seriously (unlike your great state of California
). I would think counseling for both the abused and abuser would come before any unsupervised contact, regardless of any possible pleas for contact made by the victim.
From Utah's Legislature when drafting the new law: "Because of the serious, unique, and highly traumatic nature of domestic violence crimes, the high recidivism rate of violent offenders, and the demonstrated increased risk of continued acts of violence subsequent to the release of a perpetrator who is convicted of domestic violence, it is the finding of the Legislature that domestic violence crimes warrant the issuance of continuous protective orders ..,"
The rest can be read in the links provided earlier.