scylentbob
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? California
Well this will be quite a story. My friend, I guess you could say boyfriend, was arrested the other day coming home from Taiwan. He was told he has a warrant for his arrest in what I assume is San Mateo County, although the timeline is not clear. We moved out of Northern California a couple months ago to return home, and he was never made aware of any such issues. I assume it is what is called a bench warrant for a failure to appear in court regarding a marijuana charge stemming from February of this year. When I spoke with him over the phone, he told me that the warrant was faxed over from San Mateo County, and the mailing address was not correct; it was not even his address at all(It was mailed to an uncle with whom he has no contact, and it was neither correctly addresed nor delivered to his relative).
So basically, I have no i dea what to make of this whole mess. He was never kept in the loop, he was never given any information regarding this issue in any way. On occasions in which he attempted to reach the narcotics detective, he was told she would not be available until November. And then fast forward to now, he has still not heard anything regarding this issue, he has had to move back home to LA, his family is deciding whether to cancel his permanent residence and bring him to his home country, and he has just returned from Taiwan, visiting his dying grandfather. All of a sudden, he comes home to find he has a warrant on him.
I know there are a whole bunch of legal loopholes I don't understand so hopefully you can expound upon this; especially CdwJava, your advice would be very welcome and helpful. I just don't know what to do to help, and I feel like there is no hope. It also makes me feel as if he is being harassed for the fact that he is homosexual. Or asian. Or muslim. Or any combination of the three. Although I should know better, I just feel like someone's got it in for him. He didn't even want anyone to pay his bail because it would be too much of a bother to his friends.
I guess there isn't really much I can do anyway. But I would at least like to know how long I can expect this to take before I can finally see him again. Right now he is at the police department, waiting to speak to a judge in what I assume is arraignment. Oh, sorry, the other details: I don't know what the specifics are now with this new development, but the original charge would have possibly been possession w/ intent to sell(under ten grams). I mean, I know I can say I've never seen him sell drugs, but it should still be hard for him to fight, wouldn't it? I understand however, that he was coerced into positively admitting to distributing marijuana, and I know from being with him so long that he is always very easily coerced.
i'll shut up now. sorry for the length of this post. I just don't know what to do and I am worried for him so much. If you need any other info. i may have not mentioned, just let me know.
Well this will be quite a story. My friend, I guess you could say boyfriend, was arrested the other day coming home from Taiwan. He was told he has a warrant for his arrest in what I assume is San Mateo County, although the timeline is not clear. We moved out of Northern California a couple months ago to return home, and he was never made aware of any such issues. I assume it is what is called a bench warrant for a failure to appear in court regarding a marijuana charge stemming from February of this year. When I spoke with him over the phone, he told me that the warrant was faxed over from San Mateo County, and the mailing address was not correct; it was not even his address at all(It was mailed to an uncle with whom he has no contact, and it was neither correctly addresed nor delivered to his relative).
So basically, I have no i dea what to make of this whole mess. He was never kept in the loop, he was never given any information regarding this issue in any way. On occasions in which he attempted to reach the narcotics detective, he was told she would not be available until November. And then fast forward to now, he has still not heard anything regarding this issue, he has had to move back home to LA, his family is deciding whether to cancel his permanent residence and bring him to his home country, and he has just returned from Taiwan, visiting his dying grandfather. All of a sudden, he comes home to find he has a warrant on him.
I know there are a whole bunch of legal loopholes I don't understand so hopefully you can expound upon this; especially CdwJava, your advice would be very welcome and helpful. I just don't know what to do to help, and I feel like there is no hope. It also makes me feel as if he is being harassed for the fact that he is homosexual. Or asian. Or muslim. Or any combination of the three. Although I should know better, I just feel like someone's got it in for him. He didn't even want anyone to pay his bail because it would be too much of a bother to his friends.
I guess there isn't really much I can do anyway. But I would at least like to know how long I can expect this to take before I can finally see him again. Right now he is at the police department, waiting to speak to a judge in what I assume is arraignment. Oh, sorry, the other details: I don't know what the specifics are now with this new development, but the original charge would have possibly been possession w/ intent to sell(under ten grams). I mean, I know I can say I've never seen him sell drugs, but it should still be hard for him to fight, wouldn't it? I understand however, that he was coerced into positively admitting to distributing marijuana, and I know from being with him so long that he is always very easily coerced.
i'll shut up now. sorry for the length of this post. I just don't know what to do and I am worried for him so much. If you need any other info. i may have not mentioned, just let me know.
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