Then your daughter needs to take him to court for contempt for not honoring the court orders regarding child support and health insurance...and again, you don't need to give him part of your time, but your daughter is required to provide him time at her expense, therefore she needs to do that.LdiJ - Appreciate your response. Understand, the focus really isn't compensation for us, nor is that really important. What bothers me is the birth father continues to expect these freebies, yet offers nothing in return, and not sure we need to give up visitation time at our expense. He's ignored child support and discontinued health care coverage for our granddaughter that was also ordered by the court. Recognize I may be vindictive, but hate to see this happening to our daughter and granddaughter.