I am being sued by an ex-friend for monies paid on an auto for 6 months ( I took back the car because she could not get financing in her name). I received notice that I have to appear for mediation in October on a Wed. which means I will have to miss work. If it gets scheduled for a court date-I will have to miss again. I would like to know if I can hold her responsible (possible counter-sue) for missed days even if I use vacation time for it. (which I would rather save for my own use-but cannot afford to have my check shorted by a day)