justamom2019
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I live in the state of Idaho and have no custody agreement. I get child support and that states that my children live with me on a full time basis, but we have not gone to court to make a custody agreement. we are currently still married but have been separated since November 2017. My ex was a seriously abusive person for 7 years and when i left him in november of 2017 i had him arrested and charged with domestic violence. He is still trying to control me through my children and has threatened to have me arrested for letting my boyfriend (who has absolutely no criminal history what so ever) around my children. he states that just because he is the father of my children he is allowed to control what i do with them and who i have them around. I am trying to plan to move to the state next to me (Utah) with my children but i dont have the money or time to fight with him in court. So my real question is without having a custody agreement that states i cant move, would it be legal for me to move with my children?