My x lives in tx with her husband of common law. She has my child who I haven't seen in 1 year. I don't want custody and I don't want to pay. The child lives with two people who can provide for him. The mother does not want to stop my payments. Can I do anything about the equitable adoption clause. what if the other parent won't agree either. I have married and have a family of my own to support.Is there anything I can do? Is it in the best intrest of the child to terminate my rights and obligations?