Dealing with a custody issue concerning my daughter. Mother of child i recently found out has been in a relationship with a deputy and good friends with others on the force. I called the department when I was told by mother of child that she would not let me see my daughter again unless shes forced. I contacted department to see what if any options i had. Explained her affiliations, and was told id be called by an officer and was protected by laws to anonymity. Next morning the mother of.my child called and texted me, knowing of conversation and exact details of what was said. What can i do about this? Can i sue? State is nc.
1) If you don't have a court order granting you parenting time, then Mom is doing nothing (legally) wrong. Your recourse is to go to family Court and petition for visitation/parenting time.
2) If you do have a court order granting you parenting time, and Mom is denying you, you document each time that you attempt to exercise your visitation and are denied. (A police report can help.) You keep everything simple and factual: you are the legal parent, you have a court order granting you parenting time, you tried to exercise you parenting time on x, y, z dates, and were denied. You then go to court and move that she be found in contempt, and that she be forced to not just obey the court order, but that she also allow you to make up the lost time. At NO time do you mention her boyfriend, or who she socializes with. The ONLY time it is relevant who she is seeing is when it poses a danger to the child (registered child sex offender, for example).
As has previously been mentioned, sometimes the police will contact the other party when you file a police report. In fact, the only reason for them NOT to is in cases where such contact will endanger the person reporting (think domestic violence).
As TM pointed out, you should be focusing on enforcing your parenting time with your child.
I find it disquieting that your first post is in "Legal Ethics & Lawyer Malpractice" and not in "Child Custody & Visitation"; it speaks VOLUMES about your priorities.