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Phaedrus
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What is the name of your state? CA
I was born in American Fork Utah in March of 1985. My parents were divorced when I was three and of course my mother gained custody. A year later my mother got in serious trouble and was sent to prison. There was a hearing in which custody was initially intended to be handed over to my father. My grandmother on my mother's side showed up to the hearing unnanounced and convinced the judge that the best thing for the child (me) would be to let her take me to California and watch over me until my mother was fit to be a mother. So my shocked father was stuck with visitation rights and a monthly child support check which was paid to the County of Santa Clara. Now the judge did not give custody to my grandmother, I still belonged to my mother, he just gave her the right to take me to California and watch over me. So I lived with my grandparents in California and when my mother was released from prison my grandmother refused to give me back to her. My grandmothers decision to keep me away from my mother was probably best for me since my mother was fighting a chronic drug addiction. Anyway my point is that since my mother still legally had custody of me the child support checks were not going to my grandmother to help raise me and pay for my living expenses, they were going to my mother-helping her pay for her addiction. I feel that the both the courts in Utah and California have done me, my mother, my father, and my grandparents an injustice and I was wondering what can be done about it. Now that I am 18 and a legal adult would I have a legitimate case to sue these courts? Or is this just a lost cause?
I was born in American Fork Utah in March of 1985. My parents were divorced when I was three and of course my mother gained custody. A year later my mother got in serious trouble and was sent to prison. There was a hearing in which custody was initially intended to be handed over to my father. My grandmother on my mother's side showed up to the hearing unnanounced and convinced the judge that the best thing for the child (me) would be to let her take me to California and watch over me until my mother was fit to be a mother. So my shocked father was stuck with visitation rights and a monthly child support check which was paid to the County of Santa Clara. Now the judge did not give custody to my grandmother, I still belonged to my mother, he just gave her the right to take me to California and watch over me. So I lived with my grandparents in California and when my mother was released from prison my grandmother refused to give me back to her. My grandmothers decision to keep me away from my mother was probably best for me since my mother was fighting a chronic drug addiction. Anyway my point is that since my mother still legally had custody of me the child support checks were not going to my grandmother to help raise me and pay for my living expenses, they were going to my mother-helping her pay for her addiction. I feel that the both the courts in Utah and California have done me, my mother, my father, and my grandparents an injustice and I was wondering what can be done about it. Now that I am 18 and a legal adult would I have a legitimate case to sue these courts? Or is this just a lost cause?