windupwendy
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?Australasia/ Pacific
I believe I have been subject to slander and need to know if I can take legal action a.s.a.p.
Last Dec 04 during intense psychological therapy, memories returned of abuse and forced prostitution nine years ago.
Early this year i dated a close friends ex boyfriend, we are now engaged. In anger, (which i appreciate is deserved to a level),but it is her own guilt seeking revenge as she had been unfaithful, two affairs with married men, throughout the relationship.
I had confided only in her and my therapist, she had been my strength and supported me through months of excessive suicidal tendencies, I had offered support for her, without judgement so our bond was strong.
I never once imagined she would turn as she did. She contacted in person, all my closest friends old & new friends and I've not even seen for months, work collegues, ex partners and my husband to be.
This impacted on me, by then having to tell my family, loved ones and explain to friends, in a state that I have not yet began the proper treatment, I am living my worst fears. She has my life in her hands and she is wanting the down fall of me.
What's an already horrific trauma, has now been portrayed in the worst, most shameful way imaginable. Tales have spread in my buisness district, which is vital for my business with personal relations. Now a buisness in which I have frequent dealings with, have also been wrongly informed. Comments have been made, judgment passed, I shall not be able to return there.
I do have evidence of emotional and mental abuse, nine years ago, physical torment and diganosed severe depression, anxiety & panic attacks with the signs of an abused woman. During in which time i was under anothers persons control.. of life and of will.
Fleeing across the world, my family gave their life savings to me, $5000.00, to get away, to start again. I would not let myself return until I had a career, and could make my parents proud, I will not just be another victim of abusive men.
I worked four jobs each day, with cleaning, nannying, being an administrator to the business I was learning and running the company, alongside studing. Three years later a miricle life time oppurtunity arose in which I brought a small business in the most prestigious and affulent area in the country. I now have large client base for my age, I have become a well known and respected member of the community and my future is bright.
If you could advise me as to how to approach this matter legally or to just walk away,I would be grateful for a reply,
Wendy
I believe I have been subject to slander and need to know if I can take legal action a.s.a.p.
Last Dec 04 during intense psychological therapy, memories returned of abuse and forced prostitution nine years ago.
Early this year i dated a close friends ex boyfriend, we are now engaged. In anger, (which i appreciate is deserved to a level),but it is her own guilt seeking revenge as she had been unfaithful, two affairs with married men, throughout the relationship.
I had confided only in her and my therapist, she had been my strength and supported me through months of excessive suicidal tendencies, I had offered support for her, without judgement so our bond was strong.
I never once imagined she would turn as she did. She contacted in person, all my closest friends old & new friends and I've not even seen for months, work collegues, ex partners and my husband to be.
This impacted on me, by then having to tell my family, loved ones and explain to friends, in a state that I have not yet began the proper treatment, I am living my worst fears. She has my life in her hands and she is wanting the down fall of me.
What's an already horrific trauma, has now been portrayed in the worst, most shameful way imaginable. Tales have spread in my buisness district, which is vital for my business with personal relations. Now a buisness in which I have frequent dealings with, have also been wrongly informed. Comments have been made, judgment passed, I shall not be able to return there.
I do have evidence of emotional and mental abuse, nine years ago, physical torment and diganosed severe depression, anxiety & panic attacks with the signs of an abused woman. During in which time i was under anothers persons control.. of life and of will.
Fleeing across the world, my family gave their life savings to me, $5000.00, to get away, to start again. I would not let myself return until I had a career, and could make my parents proud, I will not just be another victim of abusive men.
I worked four jobs each day, with cleaning, nannying, being an administrator to the business I was learning and running the company, alongside studing. Three years later a miricle life time oppurtunity arose in which I brought a small business in the most prestigious and affulent area in the country. I now have large client base for my age, I have become a well known and respected member of the community and my future is bright.
If you could advise me as to how to approach this matter legally or to just walk away,I would be grateful for a reply,
Wendy
sorry. Thought this site was for actual advice, I lived in the states, the people I knew were the kind and the first to offer support. I regret bothering.