No. You have as much right as he does to have people over. Why though are you with him if he treats you this way?Hi I live in Janesville, wi, I live in a mobile home with my boyfriend. We are both on the lease and title. He does not like my mom and says she is not allowed in the house and If I let her in he will call the cops and have me arrested. Can he do that?
That's easy.I am trying to decide what to do.
I agree with the other response. He cannot have you arrested for having a guest in your home, even if he does not like the guest. You really do need to leave the guy. If he is bedridden he belongs in a nursing home.I am his caregiver he is bedridden, when we first got together he was able to walk. He is very manipulative also. I am trying to decide what to do. There is no one else to take care of him. He has alienated his whole family.
What kind of stuff do you own jointly?I did send an email to a social worker, maybe she will know how to go about it. A lot of our stuff is in both our names.
I got that, but she said "A lot of our stuff is in both names". That implies more than just the trailer.The trailer for one, LdiJ.
Re the bolded: Not without some evidence of abuse or neglect of a dependent. Besides, he doesn't want her arrested. She is the only person available to take care of him."It's your right to have people over"
Sure that's true. BUT:
Someone manipulative and dangerous but who appears vulnerable can do and say things to get you and or your invited guest (mom) arrested.
Getting out is what OP needs to focus on, not who is in the right
What is the total estimated value of the property / items that are in both of your names?
What is the liability left on the lease (per month and how many months)
And this is your problem because... ?I am his caregiver he is bedridden, when we first got together he was able to walk. He is very manipulative also. I am trying to decide what to do. There is no one else to take care of him. He has alienated his whole family.
People get arrested in domestic situations very readily. It's easy for people not to be at their best dealing with strong emotions. He might want revenge or 'prevenge' on her if he know or senses she is withdrawing emotionally. It's not unheard of. Dealing with accusations alone could be convoluted, costly and painful.Not without some evidence of abuse or neglect of a dependent. Besides, he doesn't want her arrested. She is the only person available to take care of him.
in the beginning, before I could see how manipulative he was I agreed to take care of himAnd this is your problem because... ?