my husband's ex has been withholding visitation because she got mad at him. by the time we go to court, my husband will have missed 8 visits with son. do we have a chance of getting custody? there are other things against mom--25 days missed of pre-k, live in boyfriend, but engaged recently (will be 4th marriage), beer cans in and around house, removal of son from baseball, highlights in 4 year old's hair, constant unwillingness to get along with my husband or myself. Also, regarding missed visits, first 2 skipped state; third, home with son but wouldn't answer door; fourth, came to lock door, picked sleeping son up off of couch, and took upstairs--all in husband's face. live in LA, wonderful relationship with son, pay on time every month $500 support.