heh heh... that's too funny!
But, yeah, you both have a chance at "64-40" custody... alot of things can be used by a judge to determine what type of custody to award parents...
The best advise you could EVER get is, get a lawyer NOW. I'm not pro-lawyer, but I have been down this path before... if you don't retain one now, you will need one later.
Good luck, Goooooz Frabba, and research custody online to educate yourself.
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