My sister in law just got unexpectedly presented with papers yesterday from her ex to take custody of her 11-yr old daughter to avoid paying child support. She had an attorney to help her fight a lack of payment for child support. She does not have competant legal representation or much money to defend against this case. The daughter does not want to live with her father. Is she of age to tell the court where she wishes to be raised? Is there anyone that can help with a case like this on a deferred payment basis in Collin County?