from illinois, my daughter has a 5 day old son. the birth father and she were to be married but when she tried to postpone, he went off the deep end and broke it off. my question is, what rights does she have as far as full custody, and though we don't believe he will be a problem with fighting for it, his mother definitely will. what are her rights? he has not been notified of the birth and has called 2 times in the last week to see if she went to the doctor. she doesn't want him to have anything to do with the child, she wants and needs no support. he has asked her on several occasions if the baby was even his and the mother has done the same. he has admittedly done drugs, he has done a lot of drinking in the past and he recently told her he is suicidal. he told her he wanted a paternity test, does he have to go thru court for that and does he then have to pay for the court cost and the testing? what should she be doing to prepare for whatever he or his mother throw her way.