Jennifer_S
Junior Member
My son is 9 years old and in the third grade. We have been more than happy with his education in our public school up until this year. In the beginning of the year, we received a letter from the school, stating that our s on would be placed in a basic skills reading class. We were surprised because we felt that he was a good reader, and much improved over the summer. We sent a letter, stating that we did not want him removed from his regular class for basic skills instruction at this time. We had one parent/teacher conference, early in the year (regularly scheduled conference) the teacher couldn't seem to find one nice thing to say about our son. A few weeks before the next scheduled conference (second marking period) Our son came home talking about going to a new reading class. As I questioned him, it became clear that he was in fact going to the basic skills reading class. I immediately contacted the principal and requested to meet with her and with the teacher. I brought along a private reading assesment that we had done for our son. The teacher (with a master's degree in special ed) who did that assessment felt that there was no grounds for placing him in basic skills reading. When I asked the teacher what the criteria was that she used to evalutate my son, she had nothing to say but that he was driving her crazy. I stood my ground on the reading issue and was surprised when my son came home with a D in reading. I again asked for a meeting, and my husband and I attended, along with the principal. I asked her to see his grades to determine what caused his grade to be so low, she had nothing to show me. His grade this marking period is up to a B and the rest of his grades are up as well. So I was surprised to get a letter from the Child Study Team, asking for a meeting to discuss testing him for learning disablilities. My question is do I have enough reason to refuse? I understand they can do it with or without my consent, is that true? He is a pretty smart kid and all of his grades are B or higher (except one C in Social Studies) I just don't trust the teacher's judgement on this, and have heard that once this process is started, it's hard to stop. I should also mention that we had a similar experience with this same teacher, regarding our older son. Any advise would be appreciated.