I am being taken back to court by my ex-wife because she wants more money. She already recieves $800 a month and claims she now has day care for my 2 boys after school, whom I know for a fact that it is her live in brother or her mom that watches the boys.She now wants an additional$150 more.When the boys come over they report everything my fiance and all of us do together. I know for a fact she is not happy with my new situation, but its been 2 years that we have been divorced. The boys havent had new shoes for a long time now and have had the same jackets for 2 years, and this bothers me. Why can't I have say so on how my money should be spent for the boys? She also has a$1300 a month house payment that I know I am paying for!!!!! Her brother who is 19 has lived with her for at least a year now and during the winter I am sure I was supporting him too, because he works const. and is off in the winter. How can I fight this without paying her lawyer fees and also not giving her any more money? I think my angle will be finding out how to prove my child support goes to the house payment and not the boys. Is that my option? I know she makes alot of her money in cash and won't be able to show her earnings, which these days I don't even make a decent living, let alone give her more money. If I knew the money could be controlled by me, I'd have no problem. I think child support should be organized more geared to go for the kids!!! Not to the ex who always has the latest clothes and newest hairstyle. Please don't misunderstand me I am happy, but she just won't leave me be .I just want to move on, she has always had the need to control my life, and she still is. Please give me advice our court date is in a few months. I need to find a lawyer without spending money I don't have.