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HI, I'M NEW AT THIS SO PLEASE BEAR WITH ME.
I'M A FIRST TIME STEP MOM. I AM TOLD THE BESTESS STEP MOMMY IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD.LOL. I GET ALONG GREAT WITH THE BIOMOM AND OFTEN JOKINGLY CALL HER MY WIFE IN LAW. WE TALKED FROM THE VERY BEGINNING AND DECIDED THAT THIS MESS WASN'T ABOUT US ANYMORE. ITS ABOUT THOSE KIDS. AND WHAT WE ARE GOING TO DO TOGETHER AS A TEAM TO MAKE SURE THEY DO NOT SUFFER ONE IOTA. I AM A PRODUCT OF A VERY NASTY DIVORCE. PARENTS STILL BADMOUTH AND NAME CALL TO ME AS THEY ALWAYS DID UNTIL I FINALLY PUT MY FOOT DOWN AND TOLD THEM ENOUGH!!! NO MORE..I WAS FORTUNATE TO HAVE A WONDERFUL STEP MOTHER WHOM I LOVE MORE THAN LIFE. SHE IS MY BIGGEST ROLE MODEL. I'VE NEVER MET A MORE LOVING BEAUTIFUL WOMAN THAN HER. SHE'S MY MOM IN MY HEART. AND I MUST SAY IT WASN'T ALWAYS HAPPY DAYS EITHER.. I WAS A ROTTON LIL **** TO HER AT FIRST. BECAUSE OF WHAT MY MOTHER WAS SAYING TO ME.I KNOW THAT NOW..I HAVE SINCE MADE UP FOR THAT TEN FOLD.LOL.
WELL MY PROBLEM IS....
MY HUBBY, WELL HE MAKES GOOD MONEY AT HIS TRADE. AND BECAUSE OF THAT HE HAS TO PAY 2,100.00 A MONTH FOR TWO SMALL CHILDREN..5 AND 6 1/2. THATS ALOT OF MONEY! WE STRUGGLE OUR BUTTS OFF JUST TO MAKE ENDS MEET. HIS PAYCHECK COMES EVERY TWO WEEKS. AND NEVER ON TIME..WELL CHILD SUPPORT IS DUE ON THE FIRST OF THE MONTH..SO, WE HAVE BEGRUDGINGLY WORKED OUT AN ARRAINGEMENT TO PAY 1,100.00 ON THE FIRST, AND THEN 1,000.00 WITH THE SECOND CHECK. IF ITS LATE I HAVE PROBLEMS WITH HER. SHE GETS SNOTTY.. IN THE DIVORCE SHE TOOK EVERYTHING.. MY HUBBY IS A GOOD MAN AND MADE SURE HIS CHILDREN WERE PROVIDED FOR, SO HE GAVE UP WITH OUT A FIGHT..
NOW HE GOES OFFSHORE AND WORKS FOR 3 MONTHS JUST SO THAT HE CAN PAY THESE OUTLANDISH PAYMENTS AND A SMALL CHANCE AT SURVIVAL FOR US. WE ARE A TEAM HE AND I. WE WORK HARD AND TRY TO KEEP OUR LIFE SEPERATE. NO CHAOS ALLOWED HERE..I GET THE BOYS USUALLY WHEN SHE HAS FINALLY HAD ENOUGH AND NEEDS A BREAK. IM CONSTANTLY OFFERING TO TAKE THEM. I REALLY LOVE THEM. SHE ON THE OTHER HAND. MARRIED A NICE GUY. SHE CHEATED ON HUBBY WITH HIM
HE HAS 4 CHILDREN OF HIS OWN,AND NOW HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER.. THIER HOME IS A MADHOUSE!!!!! ITS REALLY AFFECTING THE BOYS, WHO NEVER HAVE PRIVACY AND THEIR THINGS THAT WE BUY THEM GET PILFERED AS SOON AS THEY WALK IN THE DOOR.
THEY ARE ALSO GETTING CHILD SUPPORT FROM HER NEW HUBBY'S EX..LIVE IN A HUMONGUS 3 STORY HOUSE, AND SHOP LIKE CRAZY. NEW COMPUTOR EVERY YEAR, THE WORKS.
SHE IS ALSO A HYPOCHONDRIAC... WE ALSO PAY 1/2 DOCTOR BILLS..WHICH SOMETIMES CAN BE AS MUCH AS THE CS. SHE'S CLAIMING THAT THE OLDEST CHILD HAS ADHD.. WE SEE NO SIGNS OF THAT WHILE HE'S HERE. HE'S THE CALMEST SWEETEST LIL BOY IN THE WORLD..SHE'S HAD HIM ON ONE MEDICATION AFTER ANOTHER. HE'S WAISTING AWAY TO NOTHING, NOT EATING. NOT SLEEPING..PICKING HIS FINGERS TILL THEY BLEED.. SAD. WE FINALLY TALKED HER INTO TAKING HIM OFF THE MEDS FOR NOW, BUT SHE KEEPS THREATENING TO PUT HIM BACK ON THEM.
HE MISSES HIS FATHER TERRIBLY AND IS CONSTANTLY ASKING ME WHEN HE'S COMING HOME.. THE PROBLEM IS HE CAN'T AFFORD TO.
WHAT DO YOU THINK OUR CHANCES ARE OF GETTING OUR CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS LOWERED TO SOMETHING MORE REASONABLE. THIS IS KILLING US. ITS KILLING HIM.. HE'S WORKING HIS SELF TO DEATH AND WE'VE HAD A FEW HEALTH SCARES RECENTLY.. THE BOYS NEED THEIR DAD AND THEIR DAD NEEDS A LIFE.. PLEASE HELP!!!
I DON'T WANT THIS TO GET UGLY. BUT IM FEELING THAT ITS HAPPENING.
THANKS ALL
P.S. IM IN FLORIDA
I'M A FIRST TIME STEP MOM. I AM TOLD THE BESTESS STEP MOMMY IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD.LOL. I GET ALONG GREAT WITH THE BIOMOM AND OFTEN JOKINGLY CALL HER MY WIFE IN LAW. WE TALKED FROM THE VERY BEGINNING AND DECIDED THAT THIS MESS WASN'T ABOUT US ANYMORE. ITS ABOUT THOSE KIDS. AND WHAT WE ARE GOING TO DO TOGETHER AS A TEAM TO MAKE SURE THEY DO NOT SUFFER ONE IOTA. I AM A PRODUCT OF A VERY NASTY DIVORCE. PARENTS STILL BADMOUTH AND NAME CALL TO ME AS THEY ALWAYS DID UNTIL I FINALLY PUT MY FOOT DOWN AND TOLD THEM ENOUGH!!! NO MORE..I WAS FORTUNATE TO HAVE A WONDERFUL STEP MOTHER WHOM I LOVE MORE THAN LIFE. SHE IS MY BIGGEST ROLE MODEL. I'VE NEVER MET A MORE LOVING BEAUTIFUL WOMAN THAN HER. SHE'S MY MOM IN MY HEART. AND I MUST SAY IT WASN'T ALWAYS HAPPY DAYS EITHER.. I WAS A ROTTON LIL **** TO HER AT FIRST. BECAUSE OF WHAT MY MOTHER WAS SAYING TO ME.I KNOW THAT NOW..I HAVE SINCE MADE UP FOR THAT TEN FOLD.LOL.
WELL MY PROBLEM IS....
MY HUBBY, WELL HE MAKES GOOD MONEY AT HIS TRADE. AND BECAUSE OF THAT HE HAS TO PAY 2,100.00 A MONTH FOR TWO SMALL CHILDREN..5 AND 6 1/2. THATS ALOT OF MONEY! WE STRUGGLE OUR BUTTS OFF JUST TO MAKE ENDS MEET. HIS PAYCHECK COMES EVERY TWO WEEKS. AND NEVER ON TIME..WELL CHILD SUPPORT IS DUE ON THE FIRST OF THE MONTH..SO, WE HAVE BEGRUDGINGLY WORKED OUT AN ARRAINGEMENT TO PAY 1,100.00 ON THE FIRST, AND THEN 1,000.00 WITH THE SECOND CHECK. IF ITS LATE I HAVE PROBLEMS WITH HER. SHE GETS SNOTTY.. IN THE DIVORCE SHE TOOK EVERYTHING.. MY HUBBY IS A GOOD MAN AND MADE SURE HIS CHILDREN WERE PROVIDED FOR, SO HE GAVE UP WITH OUT A FIGHT..
NOW HE GOES OFFSHORE AND WORKS FOR 3 MONTHS JUST SO THAT HE CAN PAY THESE OUTLANDISH PAYMENTS AND A SMALL CHANCE AT SURVIVAL FOR US. WE ARE A TEAM HE AND I. WE WORK HARD AND TRY TO KEEP OUR LIFE SEPERATE. NO CHAOS ALLOWED HERE..I GET THE BOYS USUALLY WHEN SHE HAS FINALLY HAD ENOUGH AND NEEDS A BREAK. IM CONSTANTLY OFFERING TO TAKE THEM. I REALLY LOVE THEM. SHE ON THE OTHER HAND. MARRIED A NICE GUY. SHE CHEATED ON HUBBY WITH HIM
HE HAS 4 CHILDREN OF HIS OWN,AND NOW HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER.. THIER HOME IS A MADHOUSE!!!!! ITS REALLY AFFECTING THE BOYS, WHO NEVER HAVE PRIVACY AND THEIR THINGS THAT WE BUY THEM GET PILFERED AS SOON AS THEY WALK IN THE DOOR.THEY ARE ALSO GETTING CHILD SUPPORT FROM HER NEW HUBBY'S EX..LIVE IN A HUMONGUS 3 STORY HOUSE, AND SHOP LIKE CRAZY. NEW COMPUTOR EVERY YEAR, THE WORKS.
SHE IS ALSO A HYPOCHONDRIAC... WE ALSO PAY 1/2 DOCTOR BILLS..WHICH SOMETIMES CAN BE AS MUCH AS THE CS. SHE'S CLAIMING THAT THE OLDEST CHILD HAS ADHD.. WE SEE NO SIGNS OF THAT WHILE HE'S HERE. HE'S THE CALMEST SWEETEST LIL BOY IN THE WORLD..SHE'S HAD HIM ON ONE MEDICATION AFTER ANOTHER. HE'S WAISTING AWAY TO NOTHING, NOT EATING. NOT SLEEPING..PICKING HIS FINGERS TILL THEY BLEED.. SAD. WE FINALLY TALKED HER INTO TAKING HIM OFF THE MEDS FOR NOW, BUT SHE KEEPS THREATENING TO PUT HIM BACK ON THEM.
HE MISSES HIS FATHER TERRIBLY AND IS CONSTANTLY ASKING ME WHEN HE'S COMING HOME.. THE PROBLEM IS HE CAN'T AFFORD TO.
WHAT DO YOU THINK OUR CHANCES ARE OF GETTING OUR CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS LOWERED TO SOMETHING MORE REASONABLE. THIS IS KILLING US. ITS KILLING HIM.. HE'S WORKING HIS SELF TO DEATH AND WE'VE HAD A FEW HEALTH SCARES RECENTLY.. THE BOYS NEED THEIR DAD AND THEIR DAD NEEDS A LIFE.. PLEASE HELP!!!
I DON'T WANT THIS TO GET UGLY. BUT IM FEELING THAT ITS HAPPENING.
THANKS ALL
P.S. IM IN FLORIDA
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