Child support modified

[goldengirlblue]

What is the name of your state? PA

Real quick question.
My ex husband and I have chared physical and legal custady
We chare the children 4 night ME 3 night HIM then the next week the other way around.
Now I have filed a modificatin for childsupport Is there anyway's he will end up paying me childsupport?
We have two girl's I am home staying mom work from home making about 500 a month and he makes 3000 a month?
Any ideas ?
Also it was brought to me that the Pa law will change or they been thinking about it from over night to hour for support issues?

Anyone know about this ?

Thank you all

 

[ezmarelda]

What is the name of your state? PA

Real quick question.
My ex husband and I have chared physical and legal custady
We chare the children 4 night ME 3 night HIM then the next week the other way around.
Now I have filed a modificatin for childsupport Is there anyway's he will end up paying me childsupport?
We have two girl's I am home staying mom work from home making about 500 a month and he makes 3000 a month?
Any ideas ?
Also it was brought to me that the Pa law will change or they been thinking about it from over night to hour for support issues?

Anyone know about this ?

Thank you all

the only thing I can help with is...the word is "share" not "chare"

 

[goldengirlblue]

the only thing I can help with is...the word is "share" not "chare"

Sorry !!!!

Shared

I am german so excuse me

 

[ceara19]

What is the name of your state? PA

Real quick question.
My ex husband and I have chared physical and legal custady
We chare the children 4 night ME 3 night HIM then the next week the other way around.
Now I have filed a modificatin for childsupport Is there anyway's he will end up paying me childsupport?
We have two girl's I am home staying mom work from home making about 500 a month and he makes 3000 a month?
Any ideas ?
Also it was brought to me that the Pa law will change or they been thinking about it from over night to hour for support issues?

Anyone know about this ?

Thank you all

Even if they change the way to calculate parenting time, you would both still have equal time. The best idea I can think of would be for you to get a real JOB. Many parents would rather stay at home with their children then work, but that is not a real possibility for most, even those that are still MARRIED to the other parent. How are you paying your bills on $500 a month?

 

[GrowUp!]

We have two girl's I am home staying mom work from home making about 500 a month and he makes 3000 a month?
Any ideas ?
Also it was brought to me that the Pa law will change or they been thinking about it from over night to hour for support issues?

Anyone know about this ?

Thank you all

Being a stay-at-home mom is considered voluntary unemployment. Do you have a college degree? Any work experience? You should expect your ex to make sure (I would think) that an income equivalent to your experience/education be imputed onto you.

 

[wondreing]

The guidelines changed in PA the first of the year, but they still go by total number of overnights, not hours. My husband and his ex-wife also shared joint physical and legal custody and had an equal number of overnights. She made less money and filed for and received child support, but he received a discount for 50% overnights. So you would still receive some support, but he'd get a credit for the children staying the same number of overnights at each of your residences. Not sure what income they would use for you though since $500 a month is less than minimum wage and we don't know if you have prior work history or a degree or formal schooling. But you can still receive child support even though you share custody 50/50.

 

[goldengirlblue]

Even if they change the way to calculate parenting time, you would both still have equal time. The best idea I can think of would be for you to get a real JOB. Many parents would rather stay at home with their children then work, but that is not a real possibility for most, even those that are still MARRIED to the other parent. How are you paying your bills on $500 a month?

I am remarried my husband work's.
we have 6 children togheter and we save money by me staying home on daycare.
I stop my so you call it real job after I had a baby 3 month ago.

 

[goldengirlblue]

The guidelines changed in PA the first of the year, but they still go by total number of overnights, not hours. My husband and his ex-wife also shared joint physical and legal custody and had an equal number of overnights. She made less money and filed for and received child support, but he received a discount for 50% overnights. So you would still receive some support, but he'd get a credit for the children staying the same number of overnights at each of your residences. Not sure what income they would use for you though since $500 a month is less than minimum wage and we don't know if you have prior work history or a degree or formal schooling. But you can still receive child support even though you share custody 50/50.

I have always wondered why they don't go by hours I have the children also when he workes on his night i watch them till he gets out of work.
Witch I love my time with the children but how come they dont count it by hour's?
Will they ever ?

 

[goldengirlblue]

Being a stay-at-home mom is considered voluntary unemployment. Do you have a college degree? Any work experience? You should expect your ex to make sure (I would think) that an income equivalent to your experience/education be imputed onto you.

I have a german LPN lisence with I have not worked as in long time.About 9 year's
I don't have the money to get the LPN switched over yet.
I worked here as a network technichen witch payed alot of money.
But like I said in my last reply we save so much more money on childcare and all this then if I were to be working.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

I have a german LPN lisence with I have not worked as in long time.About 9 year's
I don't have the money to get the LPN switched over yet.
I worked here as a network technichen witch payed alot of money.
But like I said in my last reply we save so much more money on childcare and all this then if I were to be working.

keine Entschuldigung. es gibts viele andere Arbeit Sie tun konnen.

 

[goldengirlblue]

keine Entschuldigung. es gibts viele andere Arbeit Sie tun konnen.

Yeah you are right But I am employed and I do have some income.
And they did but me down in court as a care giver. So is that considert a job as well?
Und Ich brauch keine entschuldigung. Ich bin kein schlechter mensch oder mutter ich schau nur zu das meine kinder bekommen was sie verdienen.
Wo in deutschland waren sie wenn ich fragen darf?

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Yeah you are right But I am employed and I do have some income.
And they did but me down in court as a care giver. So is that considert a job as well?
Und Ich brauch keine entschuldigung. Ich bin kein schlechter mensch oder mutter ich schau nur zu das meine kinder bekommen was sie verdienen.
Wo in deutschland waren sie wenn ich fragen darf?

Wasserburg am. Inn ungefahr 70 km nord Ost Rosenheim.

 

[CJane]

I have always wondered why they don't go by hours I have the children also when he workes on his night i watch them till he gets out of work.
Witch I love my time with the children but how come they dont count it by hour's?
Will they ever ?

Even if they did use hours rather than overnights, when you have the kids on his time, it wouldn't count towards your time.

 

[goldengirlblue]

Even if they did use hours rather than overnights, when you have the kids on his time, it wouldn't count towards your time.

why is that ?
They did it for a long time for me when I was workign secind shift.

 

[CJane]

why is that ?
They did it for a long time for me when I was workign secind shift.

This is how it was explained to my ex when he tried to use 'child care hours' as 'parenting time' in his bid for full custody...

"You don't get a credit for providing child care for the children, for the same reason their teachers don't get credit for providing care for them 7+ hours per day. The children spend more awake time in school than they do with either parent. Are you suggesting that the school district would have a basis for a custody filing just because you entrust the children to them for a few hours a day? When the children's mother grants you additional time, or you agree to provide child care, you have just become a 'responsible adult' that she's leaving the children with - you are NOT exercising parenting time."