Talk with her supervisor.How the process works for a modification and it doesn't include her involving my employer. Without giving me any notice that he was requesting a modification. And being given the opportunity to submit the information myself. I feel her going directly to my employer is wrong. I do believe she has a personal relationship with my ex husband and that her husband and him are friends. We live in a small town. Clearly something is off considering how I continue to get run around from her. I just don't know what I can do about this!