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My childs father and I have an agreement made w/o a court hearing. He gets limited visitation, (supervised) with me and his mom present. He has a drug issue and thats why he does not have her alone. He is not on the BC and does not pay childsupport. I do want my child to have a relationship with her father but he only feels like he wants her for the holidays and his birthday. ( I would say for her bday but he is such a jerk that he has never been there for her birthdays because he wont face my family, (2yr) even, thought I do it all the time, and deal with his wife and her son. He wants to change our agreement and wants to have our daugher Sunday, Dec 26. without me and at his house. We are supposed to meet at a public place, and I am suppose to be there. Thats what I have filed with my lawyer. I have not been able to get a hold of her to see what she says. My ex has cancelled more than he has seen his child. I really dont feel comfortable with my daughter going to his house for the first time with out me. His mom will be there but he yells at her calls her every name in the book. I told him he could see her at his moms when we go on Wendsday but he says he wont feel comfortable (I dont know if its because of me or his mom or both). I think its a crock that he never calls his mom only to yell at her and know he expects me to let her to his house without me.
I am afraid for my daughter. Am I overreacting, What do I do? Desperatly need advise please help!!
My childs father and I have an agreement made w/o a court hearing. He gets limited visitation, (supervised) with me and his mom present. He has a drug issue and thats why he does not have her alone. He is not on the BC and does not pay childsupport. I do want my child to have a relationship with her father but he only feels like he wants her for the holidays and his birthday. ( I would say for her bday but he is such a jerk that he has never been there for her birthdays because he wont face my family, (2yr) even, thought I do it all the time, and deal with his wife and her son. He wants to change our agreement and wants to have our daugher Sunday, Dec 26. without me and at his house. We are supposed to meet at a public place, and I am suppose to be there. Thats what I have filed with my lawyer. I have not been able to get a hold of her to see what she says. My ex has cancelled more than he has seen his child. I really dont feel comfortable with my daughter going to his house for the first time with out me. His mom will be there but he yells at her calls her every name in the book. I told him he could see her at his moms when we go on Wendsday but he says he wont feel comfortable (I dont know if its because of me or his mom or both). I think its a crock that he never calls his mom only to yell at her and know he expects me to let her to his house without me.
I am afraid for my daughter. Am I overreacting, What do I do? Desperatly need advise please help!!