ajritter04
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What is the name of your state? Hawaii & New Mexico
A little background....
My husband is going to court tomorrow to sign a consent to terminate his parental rights. The reason he is doing this is to allow his ex-girlfriend and her husband to adopt the daughter they had. Her husband is in the Air Force (or Air National Guard..not sure) and is currently stationed in Hawaii.
My husbands lawyer has been seeking contact with their legal counsel in Hawaii but has been unsuccessful thus far. My mother-in-law has talked to the ex-girlfriend and she told M-I-L that they spoke with a lawyer previously but don't have a specific lawyer handling their case.
My husbands lawyer is placing a provision into his termination that states his ex and her husband must obtain legal counsel and complete the adoption within 30 days of my husband signing the consent. Herein lies part of the problem..it looks as if the ex and husband are dragging their feet just to aggrivate everyone on this end, which they have been known to do. The whole proceeding started roughly 4 months ago and my husbands lawyer has not heard anything from any form of counsel from anyone in Hawaii - which is the reason for the 30 day provision.
Currently, they (the Hawaii crowd) are "having trouble coordinating his schedule with the lawyer". Obviously, not being in the military, I don't know how military lawyers work. I'm guessing that they're nothing like their civilian counterparts.
And now the questions:
1) Is there some kind of "pool" of available lawyers that serves people on a first-come-first-serve basis?
2) Are military lawyers only available on certain days or during certain hours?
3) Do military lawyers only handle cases dealing directly with the military or will they counsel any service member regardless of the subject?
4) How difficult / time consuming is it to go through military lawyers for anything?
5) Are military lawyers available free of charge or low charge for service members?
The reason I ask about the charge is because my mother in law was told by my husbands ex that part of the reason for it taking so long to accomplish anything is also due in part to having to afford a lawyer. However, my husband came from a family where both of his grandfathers were in the military (one in the Army Air Corp [WW II] and the other in the Air Force [Korean War]) and he remembers them being able to have access to lawyers free of charge. The last time they used any sort of legal service was about 2 years before they died..so unless something changed.....
Thanks for any input on this matter.
A little background....
My husband is going to court tomorrow to sign a consent to terminate his parental rights. The reason he is doing this is to allow his ex-girlfriend and her husband to adopt the daughter they had. Her husband is in the Air Force (or Air National Guard..not sure) and is currently stationed in Hawaii.
My husbands lawyer has been seeking contact with their legal counsel in Hawaii but has been unsuccessful thus far. My mother-in-law has talked to the ex-girlfriend and she told M-I-L that they spoke with a lawyer previously but don't have a specific lawyer handling their case.
My husbands lawyer is placing a provision into his termination that states his ex and her husband must obtain legal counsel and complete the adoption within 30 days of my husband signing the consent. Herein lies part of the problem..it looks as if the ex and husband are dragging their feet just to aggrivate everyone on this end, which they have been known to do. The whole proceeding started roughly 4 months ago and my husbands lawyer has not heard anything from any form of counsel from anyone in Hawaii - which is the reason for the 30 day provision.
Currently, they (the Hawaii crowd) are "having trouble coordinating his schedule with the lawyer". Obviously, not being in the military, I don't know how military lawyers work. I'm guessing that they're nothing like their civilian counterparts.
And now the questions:
1) Is there some kind of "pool" of available lawyers that serves people on a first-come-first-serve basis?
2) Are military lawyers only available on certain days or during certain hours?
3) Do military lawyers only handle cases dealing directly with the military or will they counsel any service member regardless of the subject?
4) How difficult / time consuming is it to go through military lawyers for anything?
5) Are military lawyers available free of charge or low charge for service members?
The reason I ask about the charge is because my mother in law was told by my husbands ex that part of the reason for it taking so long to accomplish anything is also due in part to having to afford a lawyer. However, my husband came from a family where both of his grandfathers were in the military (one in the Army Air Corp [WW II] and the other in the Air Force [Korean War]) and he remembers them being able to have access to lawyers free of charge. The last time they used any sort of legal service was about 2 years before they died..so unless something changed.....
Thanks for any input on this matter.