clarton, I apologize for not returning to this thread earlier. I was traveling out of state and failed to check in to add the “tips” I earlier promised. I don’t know whether there has been a hearing scheduled for your case yet but, in case there hasn’t been, here are a couple of links to information you might find helpful. You will want to check your local courthouse for additional rules, which should be posted on the Courthouse website.
From the Florida Courts, Preparing for Court:
https://help.flcourts.org/Get-Started/The-Process-What-Happens-in-Court/Preparing-for-Court-Courtroom-Expectations
Although the following seems like common sense, we have had posters on this forum who have asked before if they can wear pajamas to court. You should not.
Dress codes generally will require you dress in a manner that does not “offend” the court. This means no teeshirts with derogatory messages or images, no ripped blue jeans, no baseball caps, no revealing outfits (no one wants to see too much of your chest or your legs). It
does mean “professional” attire (which might depend on your profession but should mean clean, pressed, nice clothing like a suit and tie, khakis and buttoned shirt, etc).
For an interesting look at courthouse dress codes and their constitutionality, the following was published in 2018 in the
Harvard Law Review (“Sixth Amendment Challenge to Courthouse Dress Codes”):
https://harvardlawreview.org/2018/01/sixth-amendment-challenge-to-courthouse-dress-codes/
Attitude matters. Be polite to everyone in the courtroom. Do not raise your voice or interrupt others when they are speaking. Address all comments to the judge and not the other party. Try to remain emotionless when the other party lies (which he probably will). You will be given the chance to refute these lies.
The other party needs to prove his case - and he does not appear to have the evidence to do so. His word that he received the wrong document from you, as Zigner noted, appears contrary to common sense.
Good luck in court.