What is the name of your state? California
I am a graduate student at a private college in California. Recently a student in my class was suspended in a disciplinary action that much of the class, including me, felt was extraordinarily heavy-handed and possibly racially motivated.
So, I set up a meeting with some other students where we reviewed what had happened and decided to start a petition. The next day, one of the Deans (in charge of disciplinary actions) starts calling students into her office for one-on-one 'talks' and threatens them with suspension, expulsion, loss of their fellowships and bad job references if they pursued any action, ie more meetings, petitions, etc. When it was my turn, I took a witness. She told me that she would be giving future employers a bad or no job reference at all because of my attitude, poor character, and for instigating trouble. The students who received the more serious threats were all minority students. I am white, but perhaps having a witness helped.
My first reaction was to be amazed that a college administrator would actually act that way--it's like the college hung a big "SUE ME" sign on the door. My second reaction, though is to be scared s***less. I graduate in a few months. My resume is out there. She is in a position to ruin my career before it even starts. I've been a good student both academically and in my extracurricular work.
So, I am wondering if anyone has experience dealing with a very vindictive person in a position of power. Do I go offense, defense, or run away? Do I lay low, cross my fingers, and hope she doesn't carry out her threat? Do I find an attorney to send a cease-and-desist letter--or would that be like poking a stick at an angry hippo? Do I start a newsletter and try to get media attention--I still feel terrible for the guy who was suspended.
I am a graduate student at a private college in California. Recently a student in my class was suspended in a disciplinary action that much of the class, including me, felt was extraordinarily heavy-handed and possibly racially motivated.
So, I set up a meeting with some other students where we reviewed what had happened and decided to start a petition. The next day, one of the Deans (in charge of disciplinary actions) starts calling students into her office for one-on-one 'talks' and threatens them with suspension, expulsion, loss of their fellowships and bad job references if they pursued any action, ie more meetings, petitions, etc. When it was my turn, I took a witness. She told me that she would be giving future employers a bad or no job reference at all because of my attitude, poor character, and for instigating trouble. The students who received the more serious threats were all minority students. I am white, but perhaps having a witness helped.
My first reaction was to be amazed that a college administrator would actually act that way--it's like the college hung a big "SUE ME" sign on the door. My second reaction, though is to be scared s***less. I graduate in a few months. My resume is out there. She is in a position to ruin my career before it even starts. I've been a good student both academically and in my extracurricular work.
So, I am wondering if anyone has experience dealing with a very vindictive person in a position of power. Do I go offense, defense, or run away? Do I lay low, cross my fingers, and hope she doesn't carry out her threat? Do I find an attorney to send a cease-and-desist letter--or would that be like poking a stick at an angry hippo? Do I start a newsletter and try to get media attention--I still feel terrible for the guy who was suspended.
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