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knovak
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My confusion is that -- my husband filed for divorce, and started to brag to everyone he filed for divorce, after talking to me everyday, and coming by to see me, he says he cant work things out because he told to many people.
the confusion is tht when we go to court, i feel the judge doesnt see through the games my husband is dealing.
1) we have children, and my husband is a workaholic, and never home, all day working on cars and every night he DECIDES to go to the firehouse, leaving me to raise the kids, like a single mom.
2) because of the behavior for the past 3 years, this turned me and my children to another male figure, after feeling like a school girl again, i felt it was wrong.
so i broke it off, my kids were hurt, but i explained i wanted to work things out with their dad.
3) a couple of months later, i was prgnant, and my husband decided that we would keep the baby, along with problems withhis mom interferring in the relationship..
he waited till the baby was born, and then starts to talk to doctors about paternity tests, and then leaves me in the hospital, i had to find my way home.
Question is -- when i left he hospital, my husband signed his name to the birth certificate knowing it was not his, and the next question is.. is he liable to help me with support, since the reason is that he wanted the extra money his job gives him for the kids.
How can i prove something like this to a court --- a judge.
Next question, how do i make the judge see that my husband needs family counseling for his children, since he does not spend alot of time with them.
Well, my husband locked me out of the house one night, and then the next day went down and filed charges of abandonement, so I am in trouble with the courts eyes ---
i did not abandon my children, my children want to be with me, but now we had to go to a law guardian, and she aid to the judge SHE recommends counseling,and tht my children see me.. but the judge didnt say anthing, he order a foresic (sp??) testing, to see who is the fit parent, wht is this.. i am scared. my husband has been keeping my kids from me, and all he does is constantly repeat the court cases to them, when they are kids, so the kids are mad at me.. So how do i stop this.. ( i hear nothing )
I am just tired of loosing incourt, i want to win, i want us to be a family again, with the help of counseling..
any suggestions, very sad and depressed.. My husband still cals me and comes by, he says he feels sorry for me, and is trying to help, but when i tell him to stop, he says no, i cant, you had a baby by someone else, and i cant...but he still comes by........... confused............
i just want to find a legal way to burst his bubble to wake him up.. any suggestions would be greatful,
Under the common statutory provision, the parents of a child born within a marriage are joint guardians of that child (kiana, steven, alyssa) and the rights of both parents are equal--each parent has an equal right to the custody of the child when they separate. what is it in NY.
thanks,
the confusion is tht when we go to court, i feel the judge doesnt see through the games my husband is dealing.
1) we have children, and my husband is a workaholic, and never home, all day working on cars and every night he DECIDES to go to the firehouse, leaving me to raise the kids, like a single mom.
2) because of the behavior for the past 3 years, this turned me and my children to another male figure, after feeling like a school girl again, i felt it was wrong.
so i broke it off, my kids were hurt, but i explained i wanted to work things out with their dad.
3) a couple of months later, i was prgnant, and my husband decided that we would keep the baby, along with problems withhis mom interferring in the relationship..
he waited till the baby was born, and then starts to talk to doctors about paternity tests, and then leaves me in the hospital, i had to find my way home.
Question is -- when i left he hospital, my husband signed his name to the birth certificate knowing it was not his, and the next question is.. is he liable to help me with support, since the reason is that he wanted the extra money his job gives him for the kids.
How can i prove something like this to a court --- a judge.
Next question, how do i make the judge see that my husband needs family counseling for his children, since he does not spend alot of time with them.
Well, my husband locked me out of the house one night, and then the next day went down and filed charges of abandonement, so I am in trouble with the courts eyes ---
i did not abandon my children, my children want to be with me, but now we had to go to a law guardian, and she aid to the judge SHE recommends counseling,and tht my children see me.. but the judge didnt say anthing, he order a foresic (sp??) testing, to see who is the fit parent, wht is this.. i am scared. my husband has been keeping my kids from me, and all he does is constantly repeat the court cases to them, when they are kids, so the kids are mad at me.. So how do i stop this.. ( i hear nothing )
I am just tired of loosing incourt, i want to win, i want us to be a family again, with the help of counseling..
any suggestions, very sad and depressed.. My husband still cals me and comes by, he says he feels sorry for me, and is trying to help, but when i tell him to stop, he says no, i cant, you had a baby by someone else, and i cant...but he still comes by........... confused............
i just want to find a legal way to burst his bubble to wake him up.. any suggestions would be greatful,
Under the common statutory provision, the parents of a child born within a marriage are joint guardians of that child (kiana, steven, alyssa) and the rights of both parents are equal--each parent has an equal right to the custody of the child when they separate. what is it in NY.
thanks,