Newlydivmomto4
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
Good morning everyone. Things have been going well for myself and my children. I have even gotten my oldest on the road to having a relationship with his father, and his father to accept the fact that he did do wrong w/ his son.
My ex is moving on Thursday to Virginia, orders from the military. I just have a few questions regarding what needs to be done. We haven't set up a parenting plan yet for two reasons, one, he doesn't have a place to live yet and two, he does not know what his schedule is going to be yet in regards to deployments/training etc. I have suggested that he flies out here for a week in the summer to visit and he can stay with friends, he has not responded to that because he doesn't know his schedule yet.
His pay will be going down by roughly 500/month due to location, but since his parenting time will also be going down, I suggested just leaving the child support as is because it will come out roughly the same. He has agreed to this. Neither of us have filed anything with the courts in regards to this or to his moving. Do we need to file anything if there is no change in CS? Obviously he needs to notify the court of his moving, which he has not done but that is not my concern as of yet.
I am going to be looking at moving out of California (not my home state and personally just don't like it) after the end of the 09-10 school year. I would move sooner, but the youngest really needs to start Kindergarden in the fall and the three states that I am looking at moving to, she will miss the cutoff date. When I do decide to move, is there anything that would prevent me from moving out of the state? His orders are for 3 yrs, so the possibility of him moving back to California in the next year is slim to none.
Thanks in advance for your help, its truly appreciated.
Good morning everyone. Things have been going well for myself and my children. I have even gotten my oldest on the road to having a relationship with his father, and his father to accept the fact that he did do wrong w/ his son.
My ex is moving on Thursday to Virginia, orders from the military. I just have a few questions regarding what needs to be done. We haven't set up a parenting plan yet for two reasons, one, he doesn't have a place to live yet and two, he does not know what his schedule is going to be yet in regards to deployments/training etc. I have suggested that he flies out here for a week in the summer to visit and he can stay with friends, he has not responded to that because he doesn't know his schedule yet.
His pay will be going down by roughly 500/month due to location, but since his parenting time will also be going down, I suggested just leaving the child support as is because it will come out roughly the same. He has agreed to this. Neither of us have filed anything with the courts in regards to this or to his moving. Do we need to file anything if there is no change in CS? Obviously he needs to notify the court of his moving, which he has not done but that is not my concern as of yet.
I am going to be looking at moving out of California (not my home state and personally just don't like it) after the end of the 09-10 school year. I would move sooner, but the youngest really needs to start Kindergarden in the fall and the three states that I am looking at moving to, she will miss the cutoff date. When I do decide to move, is there anything that would prevent me from moving out of the state? His orders are for 3 yrs, so the possibility of him moving back to California in the next year is slim to none.
Thanks in advance for your help, its truly appreciated.
