Okay wait a minute. I got married. I went where the job was. We made a compromise to meet at a certain point. That point is conventient only when he sees fit. I am not trying to not let my son see his dad I want him to have a relationship with his dad.
I'm sorry, but you are being completely ridiculous.
You did not move for YOUR job, you moved because you followed a man. Not same thing. And not dad's problem. Dad is still dad, and he didn't move or do anything worng. You had to have realized when YOU moved that YOU were now responsible to deliver the child to dad.
If you don't like it, move back.
When we lived in the same town, four blocks from one another, I had to take him to his dad's when his dad had to pass by my house just to pick him up. I didn't say anything. I just did it trying to be the good person.
That's not a good person, that's following a court order. Like you're supposed to.
I know it is not convenient in these days and times to go traversing across Texas, but you go where the job is. I didn't move to get away from him. I moved because I went on with my life and got my kids in a better situation. They are thriving and involved and my son is happy.
New hubby is not "new daddy." Dad is dad. You moved and got away from dad, so this mess is your responsibility.
Why don't you just sign up son with activities in dad's area. Then your wonder son will get to do it all - half near you, half near dad.
Tell your son no. Tell him his father, his parent, his half of the life forming process comes before throwing a ball. I can't believe you're even making that argument. How petty and selfish and
delusional of you.