What is the name of your state?PA
My ex and I are in the process of drawing up a CS and custody/visition agreement. I am working with an attorney for the custody and using Domestic Relations for CS because the results are usually standard anyway and it will saves us money.
A little background:
The ex lives on the west coast and I live in PA. Our ONLY problem is neither of us are willing to move to the other's side of the country so we are at an impasse. As a result, we are trying to legalize our custody/visitation and CS agreement without much help or influence from attorneys and DR. Our custody order will be very basic with lots of room for interpretation. If in the future we have a difficult time coming to agreements on issues, we will return to an attorney for clarification to enter into the order. The CS will be along similar lines of standard orders. I filed with DR on Friday. In order for her to enter our agreement, both parties need to have the agreement written on paper, signed and notorized. She said that each of us could write our information down on our own paper and have it notorized in our locations, as long as the information is consistent with the other's, since us doing it together isn't feasible. I'm reluctant to agree with her on this because they've never dealt with an international agreement before. Does anyone know if this will hold up in court down the road if problems were ever to arise or should we both be present to do this?
Also, the agreement is that he pays me per month $831 in CS and $519 for daycare. Should we separate these amounts in our agreement or put them together for a total of $1350. Or does it not make a difference?
My ex and I are in the process of drawing up a CS and custody/visition agreement. I am working with an attorney for the custody and using Domestic Relations for CS because the results are usually standard anyway and it will saves us money.
A little background:
The ex lives on the west coast and I live in PA. Our ONLY problem is neither of us are willing to move to the other's side of the country so we are at an impasse. As a result, we are trying to legalize our custody/visitation and CS agreement without much help or influence from attorneys and DR. Our custody order will be very basic with lots of room for interpretation. If in the future we have a difficult time coming to agreements on issues, we will return to an attorney for clarification to enter into the order. The CS will be along similar lines of standard orders. I filed with DR on Friday. In order for her to enter our agreement, both parties need to have the agreement written on paper, signed and notorized. She said that each of us could write our information down on our own paper and have it notorized in our locations, as long as the information is consistent with the other's, since us doing it together isn't feasible. I'm reluctant to agree with her on this because they've never dealt with an international agreement before. Does anyone know if this will hold up in court down the road if problems were ever to arise or should we both be present to do this?
Also, the agreement is that he pays me per month $831 in CS and $519 for daycare. Should we separate these amounts in our agreement or put them together for a total of $1350. Or does it not make a difference?
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