Custody Battle

[RkieFan]

What is the name of your state? Massachusetts

This is a rather long, confusing tale and we need help resolving it desperately. My sister passed away in January. Her 20-year-old daughter has three-year-old twins with her ex-boyfriend. I am currently residing in Tx. We are trying to get my niece down here with the children along with her younger sister and brother, ages 17 and 15. The ex-boyfriend is constantly putting up roadblocks. My niece cannot afford an attorney and it seems that there's nobody in the entire state of Massachusetts will help her. The ex-boyfriend filed a motion of expartee on the 20th of Feb. It's supposed to be dismissed on Monday, the 17th of July. He informed her today that she would be served with more papers preventing her from leaving the state of Massachusetts. Her fiance is currently attending Tech School at Sheppard AFB and they want to get married when he gets out of school in September. I'm just looking for somebody that will give us some kind of advice on what to do.

Thank you
CindyWhat is the name of your state?

 

[carbro]

What is the name of your state? Massachusetts

This is a rather long, confusing tale and we need help resolving it desperately. My sister passed away in January. Her 20-year-old daughter has three-year-old twins with her ex-boyfriend. I am currently residing in Tx. We are trying to get my niece down here with the children along with her younger sister and brother, ages 17 and 15. The ex-boyfriend is constantly putting up roadblocks. My niece cannot afford an attorney and it seems that there's nobody in the entire state of Massachusetts will help her. The ex-boyfriend filed a motion of expartee on the 20th of Feb. It's supposed to be dismissed on Monday, the 17th of July. He informed her today that she would be served with more papers preventing her from leaving the state of Massachusetts. Her fiance is currently attending Tech School at Sheppard AFB and they want to get married when he gets out of school in September. I'm just looking for somebody that will give us some kind of advice on what to do.

Thank you
CindyWhat is the name of your state?

Way to go!!!!!!!!!!

Rip a fathers kids away from him for your selfish needs.

Do you have any idea what fathers go through because people like you pull this crap???


carbro

 

[fairisfair]

What is the name of your state? Massachusetts

This is a rather long, confusing tale and we need help resolving it desperately. My sister passed away in January. Her 20-year-old daughter has three-year-old twins with her ex-boyfriend. I am currently residing in Tx. We are trying to get my niece down here with the children along with her younger sister and brother, ages 17 and 15. The ex-boyfriend is constantly putting up roadblocks. My niece cannot afford an attorney and it seems that there's nobody in the entire state of Massachusetts will help her. The ex-boyfriend filed a motion of expartee on the 20th of Feb. It's supposed to be dismissed on Monday, the 17th of July. He informed her today that she would be served with more papers preventing her from leaving the state of Massachusetts. Her fiance is currently attending Tech School at Sheppard AFB and they want to get married when he gets out of school in September. I'm just looking for somebody that will give us some kind of advice on what to do.

Thank you
CindyWhat is the name of your state?

I am assuming that the ex boyfriend is the established father of these children. Obviously, it is his desire to remain near his children, he does have as much right to them as she does, after all, he is their father. She can petition to court to allow her move, but she will have to prove that this move is in the best interest of the children. Just because she wants to be near her new boyfriend, isn't going to cut it. Honest advice, your niece is an adult with adult issues to handle, she needs to handle them on her own. Your dog is not in this fight.

 

[Zephyr]

What is the name of your state? Massachusetts

This is a rather long, confusing tale and we need help resolving it desperately. My sister passed away in January. Her 20-year-old daughter has three-year-old twins with her ex-boyfriend. I am currently residing in Tx. We are trying to get my niece down here with the children along with her younger sister and brother, ages 17 and 15. The ex-boyfriend is constantly putting up roadblocks. My niece cannot afford an attorney and it seems that there's nobody in the entire state of Massachusetts will help her. The ex-boyfriend filed a motion of expartee on the 20th of Feb. It's supposed to be dismissed on Monday, the 17th of July. He informed her today that she would be served with more papers preventing her from leaving the state of Massachusetts. Her fiance is currently attending Tech School at Sheppard AFB and they want to get married when he gets out of school in September. I'm just looking for somebody that will give us some kind of advice on what to do.

Thank you
CindyWhat is the name of your state?

dad has every right to protect his children's ability to have a relationship with him...the girl is 20, an adult. focus your efforts on the 2 you may be able to do something about...unless you have 20K lyin around to help her with the attorney's fees she'll need in order to move

 

[bigshowecw]

not going to happen

What is the name of your state? Massachusetts

This is a rather long, confusing tale and we need help resolving it desperately. My sister passed away in January. Her 20-year-old daughter has three-year-old twins with her ex-boyfriend. I am currently residing in Tx. We are trying to get my niece down here with the children along with her younger sister and brother, ages 17 and 15. The ex-boyfriend is constantly putting up roadblocks. My niece cannot afford an attorney and it seems that there's nobody in the entire state of Massachusetts will help her. The ex-boyfriend filed a motion of expartee on the 20th of Feb. It's supposed to be dismissed on Monday, the 17th of July. He informed her today that she would be served with more papers preventing her from leaving the state of Massachusetts. Her fiance is currently attending Tech School at Sheppard AFB and they want to get married when he gets out of school in September. I'm just looking for somebody that will give us some kind of advice on what to do.

Thank you
CindyWhat is the name of your state?

what you need to do is stay out of it, this is between your niece and her ex. and unless the parents of the 17 and 15 yr old agree, they arent going anywhere, you have no legal standing where they are concerned. untill they are 18, whatever their parents say goes, and if they wont allow it, theres nothing you or they can do.

 

[tigger22472]

what you need to do is stay out of it, this is between your niece and her ex. and unless the parents of the 17 and 15 yr old agree, they arent going anywhere, you have no legal standing where they are concerned. untill they are 18, whatever their parents say goes, and if they wont allow it, theres nothing you or they can do.

I so rarely call you out but I have to ask... aren't you tired of creating new profiles yet... let alone repeating the same BS in every frigging thing you post? Does your life NOT have enough drama???

 

[fairisfair]

what you need to do is stay out of it, this is between your niece and her ex. and unless the parents of the 17 and 15 yr old agree, they arent going anywhere, you have no legal standing where they are concerned. untill they are 18, whatever their parents say goes, and if they wont allow it, theres nothing you or they can do.

Oh for god's sake Kelly, those kids don't have a guardian, can't you read? Her sister DIED.

 

[nextwife]

Her 20-year-old daughter has three-year-old twins with her ex-boyfriend.

The ex-boyfriend is constantly putting up roadblocks.

He informed her today that she would be served with more papers preventing her from leaving the state of Massachusetts. Her fiance is currently attending Tech School at Sheppard AFB and they want to get married when he gets out of school in September.

The children, and dad have every right to be actively involved, with each other! Her fiance's student plans are irrelevant - he is a LEGAL STRANGER to the children and NOT their father.

Frankly, fiance already knew that mom has kids and their co-parent in Massachusetts. He should try to make arrangment to live THERE once he graduates, so mom is not put in a position of having to choose between her kids and her man. Then they can get married, live in Massachusetts AND the kids can also have a relationship with their daddy. (FYI- that's what my hubby did- moved to me)

 

[bigshowecw]

a correction

Oh for god's sake Kelly, those kids don't have a guardian, can't you read? Her sister DIED.

yes her sister died. she didnt mention anything about the siblings father. if he is still alive, she will need his consent for them to live with her and her niece and her nieces kids. they are still minors.

 

[GrowUp!]

yes her sister died. she didnt mention anything about the siblings father. if he is still alive, she will need his consent for them to live with her and her niece and her nieces kids. they are still minors.

For God's sake you trailer twit, how many times have you been banned?

Perhaps you should stop re-creating new profiles. In case you haven't noticed (probably because you can not read), FreeAdvice's owners don't put up with bullsh*t from people like you. Look at who's being sued. Perhaps you should be next.

Now, go spread 'em for another blood relative.

 

[ceara19]

Frankly, fiance already knew that mom has kids and their co-parent in Massachusetts. He should try to make arrangment to live THERE once he graduates, so mom is not put in a position of having to choose between her kids and her man. Then they can get married, live in Massachusetts AND the kids can also have a relationship with their daddy. (FYI- that's what my hubby did- moved to me)

If the fiance is putting her in a situation where she basically has to choose between him or her children, she needs to run away as fast as she can.

 

[Ohiogal]

what you need to do is stay out of it, this is between your niece and her ex. and unless the parents of the 17 and 15 yr old agree, they arent going anywhere, you have no legal standing where they are concerned. untill they are 18, whatever their parents say goes, and if they wont allow it, theres nothing you or they can do.

READ THE POST -- the kid's mom is dead. So mom doesn't have a say anymore. It depends on where dad or dads are and whether they want custody.

 

[shell007]

READ THE POST -- the kid's mom is dead. So mom doesn't have a say anymore. It depends on where dad or dads are and whether they want custody.

Wait a minute, now I'm confused.

I thought the OP's sister was dead NOT the 20-year-old mom of the twins. I thought the 20-year-old was the OP's niece.

 

[nextwife]

My sister passed away in January.

Her 20-year-old daughter has three-year-old twins with her ex-boyfriend.

I am currently residing in Tx. We are trying to get my niece down here with the children along with her younger sister and brother, ages 17 and 15.

The ex-boyfriend is constantly putting up roadblocks. My niece cannot afford an attorney and it seems that there's nobody in the entire state of Massachusetts will help her.

The ex-boyfriend filed a motion of expartee on the 20th of Feb. It's supposed to be dismissed on Monday, the 17th of July. He informed her today that she would be served with more papers preventing her from leaving the state of Massachusetts. Her fiance is currently attending Tech School at Sheppard AFB and they want to get married when he gets out of school in September. I'm just looking for somebody that will give us some kind of advice on what to do.

20 year old neice has kids with a man in Massachusetts. The ex-boyfriend is taking legal action to stop the relocation of HIS kids out of state. The neices MOM, poster's sister, is deceased.

POster does make it hard to followe- because she refers to "the ex-boyfriend, and it's hard to know if she means the neices ex-boyfriend or the deceased mom's ex-boyfriend. However, since she then states that he "informed her today" we know nthat the "her" is NOT deceased and must be the neice. Thus "the ex-boyfriend" must be neices ex, not mom's ex.

Neice believes her boyfriends career is supposed to take priority, for the kids, over a relationship with their father.

Poster is also trying to get the younger sibs of "neice with kids", along with neice, down there. It's unclear where their dad is.

 

[haiku]

yep two different situations in the OP post.

the SISTER of the OP died leaving two minors, and a 20 year old with infant twins.

the 20 year old with infant twins, Is NOT going to be able to move her infant twins form the state of massachusetts without permision from HER ex and the state.

mass has VERY strict move away laws. if the 20 year old neice wants to go to texas, she may be able to do it, but her twins will stay in mass. and she will be the one paying support and flying back and forth to see them.

op needs to google the Mass government pages, its pretty clear.