The mother involved me in the pregnancy the entire time, she spoke to me 4 days before the birth, and invited me to the hospital, but she never called. I found out a week AFTER the birth that it was born. Her new boyfriend took great joy is informing me I missed the birth. He will not let her talk to me. He does not want me around. He does NOT know she was calling me and my mother a few times a week and visiting behind his back. He does not KNOW I went to her doctors appt. She just turned 17, I just turned 20, the boyfriend is 26.
After she found out I knew it was born. She went and filed a temporary custody order under false allegations. She was awarded temporary custody. My lawyer filed an appeal, the judge went on vacation. It has been a month, and we still have to wait a few more weeks to go to court.
Now, both cases have been combined. On her temporary custody order, it states I am the father, but the last page says 'after paternity is established, he can have supervised visitation, with me for 4 hours a week.' She is asking for DNA. I am not. I was told all along it was my child, "it could not be anyone else's". I filed for custody/visitation, not asking for dna.
She must have gotten something in mail concerning the appeal, because, I have been getting harrassing phone calls from her boyfriend now, stating that he can take care of the child, they are getting married..... they don't need my money. He left 3 messages on my cell phone, two on the house phone, and I had 8 hang ups.
The court told me when I called the scheduler, it is a "custody hearing". I was just wondering what happens. So, more than likely I will not get visitation for awhile??? This is anguishing.