i live in ca. i'm married with 2 kids and my wife has been talking about seperation.i'm afraid she may try to take off with the kids while i'm away. the courts tell me that as long as there are no court orders she can take the kids if she wants and that in order to file a resraining order keeping her from leaving it has to be in conjunction with seperation or divorce papers but i don't want to file for divorce or seperation. is there any way i could keep her from leaving the area with the kids? if what they say is true could i just up and leave with the kids without reprocussions?