Custody-jslopez & others

[bononos]

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?
OH
I try to read alot of posts to learn, and again, a response by jslopez got me thinking.
You mention that support being unpaid and behind may have bearing in custody issues. Does the amount or length of time of nonpayment have weight?
I receive CS directly (yes, I already filed modification and for wage garnishment), it's been going on 10 months since I've seen a dime. I filed the motion for contempt (motion on Apr.28, CS hearing on May 3).
I had also filed for cust. mod. and evaluation request a few months ago, I received this, will these CS issues and the contempt factor in on the custody issues?
Also, on May 3, hopefully a reasonable CS order is in place, what about the "Court Ordered" Child support? That is a seperate order and must be dealt with through custody mod., not CS mod., they can't change it. Does he still have to pay the court order amount plus the new child support amount until the order is modified? Should I accept it if he actually pays?
Thank you jslopez and others.

 

[jslopez711]

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?
OH

Now you are in Ohio? I'm confused.

You mention that support being unpaid and behind may have bearing in custody issues. Does the amount or length of time of nonpayment have weight?

No, this is not what I meant. What I meant was that once you bring up the arrears the judge will be able to see him for what he truly is. Fact is, support is not associated with visitation.

I receive CS directly (yes, I already filed modification and for wage garnishment), it's been going on 10 months since I've seen a dime. I filed the motion for contempt (motion on Apr.28, CS hearing on May 3).

Again, when the judge sees this lack of cooperation on his behalf I'm sure he'll have questions.

I had also filed for cust. mod. and evaluation request a few months ago, I received this, will these CS issues and the contempt factor in on the custody issues?

So, do you have a new order? What does it state?

Also, on May 3, hopefully a reasonable CS order is in place, what about the "Court Ordered" Child support? That is a seperate order and must be dealt with through custody mod., not CS mod., they can't change it.

Does he still have to pay the court order amount plus the new child support amount until the order is modified?

Yes, he has to pay what is on the order.

Should I accept it if he actually pays?

Well, you should get your 20% to assist you with the child's welfare, however, (personal advice coming up.) you can use this to leverage his decision about making a big stink if you move. Meaning it could play out like (".....Hey, if you don't make a fuss, I won't seek this amount and we can negotiate the arrears).

About the phone calls, you should just let your child talk to him. He should have access to the child. If you believe this to be harmful to your child, I'm sorry, talk to the child after the conversation and give her plenty of support.

Bottom line is, does he have a reasonable case to keep you in our great state? Yes.
Is this guy a clown? He sure sounds like one.
And if he is 1/2 of what you mention, the judge will see right through all this.

J.

 

[1mommy]

jLopez, as soon as I saw you say now your in Ohio, I thought you would think it was me. Im 1mommy, not this other person. My court case is also in May. But its not about CSupport, but about CCustody. I wont hijack this thread, so if you need to respond you can do so on my thread "Court Case in May"

 

[bononos]

Thank you again for your response.
I think you may have me confused with someone else possibly, I'm not planning any move and am in OH. there is someone with a similar name as I. Unless, hmmmm, I use my work CP, I hope no one else has used it.
But, your response is greatly appreciated.
The custody has not gone to the judge yet, were still in the processes. So the order is still our original.

 

[jslopez711]

jLopez, as soon as I saw you say now your in Ohio, I thought you would think it was me. Im 1mommy, not this other person. My court case is also in May. But its not about CSupport, but about CCustody. I wont hijack this thread, so if you need to respond you can do so on my thread "Court Case in May"

Yes, I got confused, I'm sure if you read my response you will get what you need.

 

[jslopez711]

Thank you again for your response.
I think you may have me confused with someone else possibly, I'm not planning any move and am in OH. there is someone with a similar name as I. Unless, hmmmm, I use my work CP, I hope no one else has used it.
But, your response is greatly appreciated.
The custody has not gone to the judge yet, were still in the processes. So the order is still our original.

I did get confused, sorry