Daughter dating an older guy!

[Caitlins_Way]

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Kentucky
I Hope someone can help me. My daughter is 15 and dating a 22 year old. We live in Kentucky. My daughter has parental consent to date this young man. He knows the rules and abides by them. The problem: A few weeks ago he had a confrontation with a man 43 that backed into his car and he filed a police report against this individual and now he is angry and wanting to create problems. He is threatening my daughters boyfriend about going to the law and turning him in related to the difference in their ages. I feel that this is wrong and as a parent it should be my decision as to who my daughter dates. In our experiences so far with guys, the ones her age all they are in it for is the sex, but thats not illegal because they are the same age. Sex is not an issue at this point. He knows our rules regarding her dating and he accepts and respects our decision. Yes, thats quite a few years difference in their ages, but I also know that it's not uncommon for men to marry younger women, I see it everyday. So, I hope you can help me assure them that no-one is going to ruin what they have as a direct result of wanting to get-even. Please help us and soon.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

The ONLY issue here is the age of the parties and the sexual act. If there is no sex act then the age of the parties is not a question of law.

Unless Kentucky has a statutory kissing statute on the books.

This guy is an idiot.

 

[stealth2]

However, you may want to have a read through http://gocadvs.ky.gov/rsassalt.htm - in particular the sections describing "sexual contact" (which is much broader in definition than sexual intercourse - as in, a court found that the touching of the upper thigh through clothing met the standard for sexual contact).

And I simply have got to question the judgement of any parent who thinks a 22yo has any business dating their 15yo daughter. Adult men are not interested in little girls for their intellect.

 

[HomeGuru]

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Kentucky
I Hope someone can help me. My daughter is 15 and dating a 22 year old. We live in Kentucky. My daughter has parental consent to date this young man. He knows the rules and abides by them. The problem: A few weeks ago he had a confrontation with a man 43 that backed into his car and he filed a police report against this individual and now he is angry and wanting to create problems. He is threatening my daughters boyfriend about going to the law and turning him in related to the difference in their ages. I feel that this is wrong and as a parent it should be my decision as to who my daughter dates. In our experiences so far with guys, the ones her age all they are in it for is the sex, but thats not illegal because they are the same age. Sex is not an issue at this point. He knows our rules regarding her dating and he accepts and respects our decision. Yes, thats quite a few years difference in their ages, but I also know that it's not uncommon for men to marry younger women, I see it everyday. So, I hope you can help me assure them that no-one is going to ruin what they have as a direct result of wanting to get-even. Please help us and soon.

**A: is this 22 year old a cousin or something? And what idiot parent consents to this sort of relationship? Are you rednecks? Do you live in a trailer park?

 

[Caitlins_Way]

Judge not, lest ye be judged!

**A: is this 22 year old a cousin or something? And what idiot parent consents to this sort of relationship? Are you rednecks? Do you live in a trailer park?

I do not live in a trailer park nor am I a red neck. I am a highly educated RN who lives in a nice house in a nice neighborhood. You my dear are very judgmental which is a sin. As for an idiot, I probably have more sense than you because when someone needs my help, I help them, I don't judge them. Your advice was way out of line and very uncalled for!

 

[HomeGuru]

I do not live in a trailer park nor am I a red neck. I am a highly educated RN who lives in a nice house in a nice neighborhood. You my dear are very judgmental which is a sin.

**A: wtf, a sin. Cite me the verse in the bible that states that.
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As for an idiot, I probably have more sense than you because when someone needs my help, I help them, I don't judge them.

**A: BS, because your daughter needs your help and do you help her? NO! Instead you allow her to be in that situation. You are an enabler perpetrating and promoting bad.

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Your advice was way out of line and very uncalled for!

**A: highly educated RN? What a minute, did you ever learn that your daughter is a minor and you allowing her to date an adult is contributing to.......oh, what the heck, you're crazy lady.

 

[Caitlins_Way]

Come out of the dark Ages!

**A: highly educated RN? What a minute, did you ever learn that your daughter is a minor and you allowing her to date an adult is contributing to.......oh, what the heck, you're crazy lady.

Crazy? You need to get your head out of the sand and wake up. And you are how old? I would guess 50-60. Not everyone is a "dirty" old man.

 

[HomeGuru]

Crazy? You need to get your head out of the sand and wake up. And you are how old? I would guess 50-60. Not everyone is a "dirty" old man.

**A: ok, idiot, all I can tell you is to read up on the law.