concernedmom63
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? South Carolina
I am a concerned mother. My son recently enlisted in the army 10/2004. He married his girlfriend prior to going to boot camp. They were married 09/04/04. They have been married 5 months and already my daughter-in-law has been sleeping around. Currently, there has been 3-4 different men that I know about, and believe me, it is true. She had to admit to one of the boys when we went to his boot camp graduation.
My son had decided to forgive her and figured that could work things out. However, this girl has no intention on remaining faithful to my son or anyone else for that matter. She is currently running up debt, and trying to have a baby with one of these men since my son is currently away in another state completing his AIT.
I have tried talking to my naive son and advising him that he needs to cut his losses and move on before this girl ruins his life and military career.
My questions are: What are the laws in regards to adultery for military spouses? Also, can he file for an annulment without having to pay her any alimony? How can I get through to my son before this woman is allowed to ruin his military career regarding her behavior? Also, can my son be held accountable for her bad checks?
Any info on the above subjects would be greatly appreciated. Also, anyone that has insight on how best to proceed, please feel free to email me directly. I am a concerned mom and would like some information on helping my son get out of this bogus marriage.
I am a concerned mother. My son recently enlisted in the army 10/2004. He married his girlfriend prior to going to boot camp. They were married 09/04/04. They have been married 5 months and already my daughter-in-law has been sleeping around. Currently, there has been 3-4 different men that I know about, and believe me, it is true. She had to admit to one of the boys when we went to his boot camp graduation.
My son had decided to forgive her and figured that could work things out. However, this girl has no intention on remaining faithful to my son or anyone else for that matter. She is currently running up debt, and trying to have a baby with one of these men since my son is currently away in another state completing his AIT.
I have tried talking to my naive son and advising him that he needs to cut his losses and move on before this girl ruins his life and military career.
My questions are: What are the laws in regards to adultery for military spouses? Also, can he file for an annulment without having to pay her any alimony? How can I get through to my son before this woman is allowed to ruin his military career regarding her behavior? Also, can my son be held accountable for her bad checks?
Any info on the above subjects would be greatly appreciated. Also, anyone that has insight on how best to proceed, please feel free to email me directly. I am a concerned mom and would like some information on helping my son get out of this bogus marriage.