Proserpina
Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? (wherever she may live)
My dear, you were given accurate information. If you've chosen to close your thread - and I expect you'll delete it at some point because you haven't been told what you want to hear - that doesn't change the bottom line.
Once again I'm terribly sorry that your anger is clouding your judgment but the fact remains...Dad does NOT know that you didn't sleep with half of the county, and you DID lie to him. Which lie should he believe?
That he IS Dad? Or that he isn't? Step outside of your sandbox. See it from HIS point of view.
You DID choose to lay with him, hence the court will agree with your decision until and unless you can prove that he's unfit.
He has every right - and again if you can get past your anger and actually stick around to read the old posts you'll know we say this over and over - to demand a DNA paternity test.
THAT is what is in your child's best interest.
If you are hoping that the court will somehow - because you're unwilling - ignore his request, you're going to be in for a sore disappointment.
Now is your chance.
Now you get to be the bigger person.
Now you get to put aside your differences and accept that this guy is going to be in your life for a good. Long. Time.
Can you do that, hmmmm?
My dear, you were given accurate information. If you've chosen to close your thread - and I expect you'll delete it at some point because you haven't been told what you want to hear - that doesn't change the bottom line.
Once again I'm terribly sorry that your anger is clouding your judgment but the fact remains...Dad does NOT know that you didn't sleep with half of the county, and you DID lie to him. Which lie should he believe?
That he IS Dad? Or that he isn't? Step outside of your sandbox. See it from HIS point of view.
You DID choose to lay with him, hence the court will agree with your decision until and unless you can prove that he's unfit.
He has every right - and again if you can get past your anger and actually stick around to read the old posts you'll know we say this over and over - to demand a DNA paternity test.
THAT is what is in your child's best interest.
If you are hoping that the court will somehow - because you're unwilling - ignore his request, you're going to be in for a sore disappointment.
Now is your chance.
Now you get to be the bigger person.
Now you get to put aside your differences and accept that this guy is going to be in your life for a good. Long. Time.
Can you do that, hmmmm?