SisterSavior
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? alabama
ok heres my situation have been married for 15 yrs almost we have 3 girls 7 months being youngest.. over years our marriage to me had depreciated on my end due to him saying i was sleeping around with who know and last year i was in a threatened miscarriage and had just got out of hospital like 2 weeks before he got me in his mustang and went 123 mph down a small curvey county road which scared my to death and all that and i dewcided then and there i have had enough yet i never said anything about any divorce till this year when my attitude towards hime had changed(accusing me of cheating and all that stuff yet again)and i told him if i ever had any love for him was gone last year after that pregnancy incident..anyways my predicament id i have been a stay at home mom for 4 months no income he is paying bills now yet barely leaves me with enough to get food and for med emergencies for girls and said that my gas for work money is my prob cause i decided that i wanted the divorce and our lease is u in 2 months on rental and my income alone will not pay for gas food rent and utilities and besides i cannot move out cause after i pay for food and gas form my money when i do get paycheck(i got job today no pay check till 2 weeks) i will have to get food and gas cause he said he dunno when hes gonna pay anything said hed pay his bils fist then hell give me some money if any is left.all i know is hes not renewing lease on home and i cant move kids out on no money and hes a truck driver and gone 6 days a week.we agreed on what he would pay on child support and all that and i cannot even pay lawer to get things rolling cause in hubs eyes he doesnt have to pay child support till its on court paper ordered to.and he still comes to this home when hes in cause he says he pays rent so hell sleep there if he awnts to and so legally am not seperated so i dunno what to do cause he's like mentally messing with my head says one thing then gets spiteful and starts on something else.... any advice???????????????????????/
ok heres my situation have been married for 15 yrs almost we have 3 girls 7 months being youngest.. over years our marriage to me had depreciated on my end due to him saying i was sleeping around with who know and last year i was in a threatened miscarriage and had just got out of hospital like 2 weeks before he got me in his mustang and went 123 mph down a small curvey county road which scared my to death and all that and i dewcided then and there i have had enough yet i never said anything about any divorce till this year when my attitude towards hime had changed(accusing me of cheating and all that stuff yet again)and i told him if i ever had any love for him was gone last year after that pregnancy incident..anyways my predicament id i have been a stay at home mom for 4 months no income he is paying bills now yet barely leaves me with enough to get food and for med emergencies for girls and said that my gas for work money is my prob cause i decided that i wanted the divorce and our lease is u in 2 months on rental and my income alone will not pay for gas food rent and utilities and besides i cannot move out cause after i pay for food and gas form my money when i do get paycheck(i got job today no pay check till 2 weeks) i will have to get food and gas cause he said he dunno when hes gonna pay anything said hed pay his bils fist then hell give me some money if any is left.all i know is hes not renewing lease on home and i cant move kids out on no money and hes a truck driver and gone 6 days a week.we agreed on what he would pay on child support and all that and i cannot even pay lawer to get things rolling cause in hubs eyes he doesnt have to pay child support till its on court paper ordered to.and he still comes to this home when hes in cause he says he pays rent so hell sleep there if he awnts to and so legally am not seperated so i dunno what to do cause he's like mentally messing with my head says one thing then gets spiteful and starts on something else.... any advice???????????????????????/