What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New york State. Ny divorce. I have not signed the stipulation of settlement and felt coerced at the allocution. My husband earns $500000 a year and more and I stopped work to help him, and raise now 8 year old son. My husband is bipolar and alcoholc was and is verbally and fiancnially abusive and very shrewd . My lawyer, a women in large firm, never applied for councel fees or supplied discovery on documens i requested. Nowf for 3 month, withholding documents and I cant make a decioson on the STIPULATION of settlement without them. I have not even seen a phone bill. At one point when i questioned her she made a motion to withdraw and then charged me for it . wht are options? What happens if i set it aside. And can i do a Malpractice suit and /or fee dispute.