I am a 25-year old, married, mother of 1 (a 2-year old boy) living in Texas. My husband is in the National Guard and just went overseas to Iraq. I have found out, with some evidence, that I believe he is having an affair (again) with a woman in his unit that is still here in the states but that he has worked with since taking a fulltime position with the aromory about a year ago. The evidence that I have was enough to convince me. At this point, all I have is several emails from this woman to my husband and although none come right out and say 'we are having sex', they all point in that direction. There is also a mention in these emails about some nude pictures she has had taken for him. The pictures are not available yet, but it is possible I could gain access to them at some point in the near future.
I am in the near future going to be seeking a divorce. However, I am trying to get more evidence against him and this woman for future reference. My main concern is that when I pursue a divorce is that my husband will try to get full custody of my son or somehow make it impossible for me to leave the county I am currently living in. I don't see any reason why I would have my custody taken away from me, but I am also wanting to move home to my family in south Texas when this is over with and I am afraid he will try to get a lawyer and make that impossible for me. Is there a way that he could somehow make the judge rule that I had to stay in the county we live in or not be able to move away with my son, even if we have joint custody? And if I had enough evidence to prove he is having this affair, would that help my case any? I am just trying to get as much advice and information on this before I get a lawyer becuase I dont want to go into this not knowin ganything and want to make sure I am still able to have my son and live my life, where I want to.
I am in the near future going to be seeking a divorce. However, I am trying to get more evidence against him and this woman for future reference. My main concern is that when I pursue a divorce is that my husband will try to get full custody of my son or somehow make it impossible for me to leave the county I am currently living in. I don't see any reason why I would have my custody taken away from me, but I am also wanting to move home to my family in south Texas when this is over with and I am afraid he will try to get a lawyer and make that impossible for me. Is there a way that he could somehow make the judge rule that I had to stay in the county we live in or not be able to move away with my son, even if we have joint custody? And if I had enough evidence to prove he is having this affair, would that help my case any? I am just trying to get as much advice and information on this before I get a lawyer becuase I dont want to go into this not knowin ganything and want to make sure I am still able to have my son and live my life, where I want to.