Divorce uncontested Indiana Child relocation.

[BetterDays79]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana


My wife filed in April for divorce, it was a uncontested divorce we agreed on all matters. Included, we agreed in the forms I could relocate to another state, we named the kids that would be moving with me. Also made a visitation schedule added in the agreement. We also filed a waiver for a final hearing, On the the papers, that I received back from the court was online parenting class, and in person $50 class for parenting. After both online, and in person parenting class, we handed in our certificates. We both attended, than afterwards filed a waiver for the final hearing.

My question, is we have agreed once the decree is final can I move to said state that was in agreement? Can a judge not allow the move, though we have agreement that was filed in the uncontested divorce papers?

Lastly I know in the state of Indiana, it's a 60 day state before the divorce can be final. Are those 60 days, including weekends, and holidays I want my divorce over as soon as possible.

 

[stealth2]

What's the rush? 60 days vs ~80.

 

[BetterDays79]

I just want it over, for various reasons

 

[Zigner]

I just want it over, for various reasons

Then you're SAFEST best is to wait a MINIMUM of 90 days. Why? Because then it won't come back to bite you later.

 

[BetterDays79]

Why is the best way to wait it's a 60 day state. I just want move on with my life and not hurt anymore a deceee will help me

 

[Zigner]

Why is the best way to wait it's a 60 day state. I just want move on with my life and not hurt anymore a deceee will help me

The decree is NOT going to help you not be hurt.

You say you want to just be done with this and move on. Well, if you wait 60 days and then find out you were off by a day, it could undo all that waiting you've already done. Think of it like this...let's say you have this important set of papers to send off. You COULD weigh it on your home scale and then place the bare minimum of postage for that weight, but then you run the risk of miscalculating and having it returned for extra postage, whereupon you're going to have to mail it all over again. The better way to do it is to put extra postage on it to make sure it gets there the first time. Those extra waiting days are the "extra postage".

 

[not2cleverRed]

https://forum.freeadvice.com/divorce-separation-annulment-36/divorce-indiana-60-days-count-weekends-holidays-634772.html

Dude, wait the 90 days to make sure the ink is dry.

 

[stealth2]

Why is the best way to wait it's a 60 day state. I just want move on with my life and not hurt anymore a deceee will help me

Time for therapy.

 

[BetterDays79]

In therapy for me she with somebody else it makes it easier for me that we are official.

 

[stealth2]

In therapy for me she with somebody else it makes it easier for me that we are official.

Remedial English next.