ConfusedinOKLA said:
my parents recently divorced and my father and i live in the house. my mother has not lived in the home for well over 2 years. we are in oklahoma. she does not like my fathers girlfriend or my boyfriend and keeps threating to take my father back to court and get all monies that was decided upon in the divorce agreement at one time if my father continues to allow my boyfriend or his girlfriend to come over to the house and stay. does she have any legal rights as to who can and cannot stay at the house?
My response:
Insofar as your father is concerned, and if live in lovers are not addressed in the divorce decree, then she's blowing smoke and can do nothing.
However, she may, in fact, have a good argument insofar as you're concerned. Since it is obvious to me that you're a minor, your mother has an absolute right to a certain amount of control over your upbringing, and your moral standards.
If her arguments are strong enough, and the situation with you is credible enough, she may have enough "proof" to prove that a "change in circumstances" is necessary and warranted under the existing circumstances. That may not be so convenient for you - - and your Dad's wallet.
Good luck to all of you.
IAAL
