nicsmom805
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? NY
I need some advice. My husband had an affair 14 months ago, and now 19 months later, there is a month old child. There is a possibility of 3 different fathers, and my husband is one of the 3. The girl says she knows it's my husbands, and he said he wanted to have DNA test. It is clear that we have some major problems and we are trying to work on them. I have already told him, I don't know if I am going to stay with him or leave. We are going to try counseling. Well, my husband has said he is not going to be with this girl no matter what happens. If the child is his he will be an active part of the childs life. My question is, now that there is no chance that he is going to be with this girl, she is doing nothing about the DNA test. She lives with her boyfriend and he has no clue about any of this. Can my husband make her go for the test? She has not asked for child support or anything else. I,personally think the whole thing is a lie, and when he didn't go running to her, it backfired. I know we are not going to be able to get on with our lives, if we always have this hanging over our heads. Thank you.
I need some advice. My husband had an affair 14 months ago, and now 19 months later, there is a month old child. There is a possibility of 3 different fathers, and my husband is one of the 3. The girl says she knows it's my husbands, and he said he wanted to have DNA test. It is clear that we have some major problems and we are trying to work on them. I have already told him, I don't know if I am going to stay with him or leave. We are going to try counseling. Well, my husband has said he is not going to be with this girl no matter what happens. If the child is his he will be an active part of the childs life. My question is, now that there is no chance that he is going to be with this girl, she is doing nothing about the DNA test. She lives with her boyfriend and he has no clue about any of this. Can my husband make her go for the test? She has not asked for child support or anything else. I,personally think the whole thing is a lie, and when he didn't go running to her, it backfired. I know we are not going to be able to get on with our lives, if we always have this hanging over our heads. Thank you.
