curious123
Member
NY
Previously I had posted about an issue I was having whereby my ex was refusing my attempts to provide childcare to my children. Now she has asked me to care for them after school, but only because, I believe, she is in a pickle with the law. I have no problem doing it as I had offered many times before and we actually already have an arrangement. The thing is because she is so touch and go with the kids I do not want to ask her to sign anything or to write up an agreement since she might choose not to allow me this extra time (yes she is that petty). My concern is that once her legal issues are resolved, she might decide to deny my extra time with the kids especially since we do not have a formal or court enforced agreement. Given this situation, how can I document the times I have them WHEN I have them that can be admissible in court? I would much rather have this time with my kids than jeopardize it by asking her to sign a piece of paper to be quite honest, so anything outside of that will be greatly appreciated. Thanks
Previously I had posted about an issue I was having whereby my ex was refusing my attempts to provide childcare to my children. Now she has asked me to care for them after school, but only because, I believe, she is in a pickle with the law. I have no problem doing it as I had offered many times before and we actually already have an arrangement. The thing is because she is so touch and go with the kids I do not want to ask her to sign anything or to write up an agreement since she might choose not to allow me this extra time (yes she is that petty). My concern is that once her legal issues are resolved, she might decide to deny my extra time with the kids especially since we do not have a formal or court enforced agreement. Given this situation, how can I document the times I have them WHEN I have them that can be admissible in court? I would much rather have this time with my kids than jeopardize it by asking her to sign a piece of paper to be quite honest, so anything outside of that will be greatly appreciated. Thanks