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jessidft

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What is the name of your state?washington
Tacoma Washington is where we divored. Our parenting plan is vage.I agreed to move to florida he said he would help me find a place there to live.Him and my daughter left and I never found a place to move to.so im still here in Washington there in florida our Final parenting plan says im to have her every other week time is split right down the middle.It doesnt address if I was not able to move there how vistation would be.I flew to see her for a week.Ive asked when i could come get her to be w/ me he says I can only have her for 2wks in april and the month of may.hes been there since july and had her the hole time.when i get her can I keep her for my half without his permision.what are my options.
 


Joke

Junior Member
jessidft said:
What is the name of your state?washington
Tacoma Washington is where we divored. Our parenting plan is vage.I agreed to move to florida he said he would help me find a place there to live.Him and my daughter left and I never found a place to move to.so im still here in Washington there in florida our Final parenting plan says im to have her every other week time is split right down the middle.It doesnt address if I was not able to move there how vistation would be.I flew to see her for a week.Ive asked when i could come get her to be w/ me he says I can only have her for 2wks in april and the month of may.hes been there since july and had her the hole time.when i get her can I keep her for my half without his permision.what are my options.

No, you can not keep her without permission. To cover your own rear, you need to go back to court to address the new issues you are facing. If you have her when your court order does not state that you should have her, then you are in violation of a COURT ORDER and that would be against the law.
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
Well, every other week certainly isn't going to work if he's in FL and you're in WA. Why didn't you move as agreed?
 

jessidft

Junior Member
When I agreed it was because he promised he would help me find a place to move.He has his whole family there.I dont know anyone there.He stayed w/family.His idea of a place for me was a motel that did not allow children.Our divorce was so nasty and was taking so long that I coulndt keep fighting mentaly or financialy so I thought if I agreed to move to Florida we would be able to get along and raise Ashley.Now I feel like he doesnt want me even to be in her life at all.Our pp says every other week Ashley comes w/ me, split right down the middle no chid support either way.we endure our own cost except for transportation we split because I dont drive.It dosent say When I would get her if I was still in our home state but also dosent say when i would give her back.I have beged for her to be able to be here when her sibling is born in july but he says no.Now he says I can have her For six weeks starting in April.Can he determen how long I have her?If I kept her for longer would he have to file w/ the court up here?Ive been told it would cost me 5,000 down and 10,000 to go to trial for a modifcation.I cant fight his parents money and I feel like ive lost everything.I have to pay for my round trip ticket to get her. Ashleys round trip ticket,and her dad wants me to pay for his to come get her or I cant have her.If I dont agree I dont see her.
 
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