Missiouri--I am married but have been separated for over 7 years and my husband is not an american so he now lives back in his home country and has not tried to help his children at all. I have two kids by him and I have one child by another man. My question is that I have a medical condition that may cause me to die at any time and I have family members that want my kids but I don't trust them with my kids. I have a boyfriend that I trust so much and is there anyway that he can get custody of my kids in the event of my death? We have no money for legal help unless we can find someone who will pay on a sliding scale and make payments. Please help me if you can. Thanks