What is the name of your state? MA
I carry health insurance on my ex-spouse through my employer. He also has a health insurance plan in place through his employer (he has been employed there nearly 30 years). I offered to keep him on mine as a secondary as long as my son was in school and required insurance, since it was not an additional cost to me.
My son is employed and has had his own health insurance since January, and I have been waiting until May for Open Enrollment in order to drop down from the family plan to the single plan. My ex is balking, however. He says that the divorce decree doesn't state that it was only until my son found health insurance or aged out. I pulled out the decree and he's correct; *my* lawyer's handwritten stipulation states that I will carry my ex on my insurance, without including an end date or event.
My questions are:
1) If I attempt to drop my ex from the insurance, will I have to provide a copy of the entire divorce decree for my HR person administering the benefits?
2) If I am successful in dropping him, how bad would I look before a judge for doing so? We had a clear meeting of the minds (between us) ahead of time and my lawyer didn't write it correctly. I know, I know...I should have thought about that part before signing, but we were going back and forth in mediation at the end of a three-year divorce and were literally making the deal in the hallway. He has been insured the entire time he has been employed through his employer (excellent plan; Forbes Top 5 Company).
I will accept any advice anyone has to give me. It means a savings to me of roughly $3600/year.
I carry health insurance on my ex-spouse through my employer. He also has a health insurance plan in place through his employer (he has been employed there nearly 30 years). I offered to keep him on mine as a secondary as long as my son was in school and required insurance, since it was not an additional cost to me.
My son is employed and has had his own health insurance since January, and I have been waiting until May for Open Enrollment in order to drop down from the family plan to the single plan. My ex is balking, however. He says that the divorce decree doesn't state that it was only until my son found health insurance or aged out. I pulled out the decree and he's correct; *my* lawyer's handwritten stipulation states that I will carry my ex on my insurance, without including an end date or event.
My questions are:
1) If I attempt to drop my ex from the insurance, will I have to provide a copy of the entire divorce decree for my HR person administering the benefits?
2) If I am successful in dropping him, how bad would I look before a judge for doing so? We had a clear meeting of the minds (between us) ahead of time and my lawyer didn't write it correctly. I know, I know...I should have thought about that part before signing, but we were going back and forth in mediation at the end of a three-year divorce and were literally making the deal in the hallway. He has been insured the entire time he has been employed through his employer (excellent plan; Forbes Top 5 Company).
I will accept any advice anyone has to give me. It means a savings to me of roughly $3600/year.