Located in California. I am making a similar post in the Marriage/Separation board.
I am married, and I moved out of marital home, I have filed for a separation (for now, I plan to utilize the insurance benefits). Court date for spousal support/alimony is coming up in a few weeks.
Spouse has committed 5+ acts of domestic violence against me. I have not filed for a RO as of present due to lack of concrete evidence (that I can share). I did not take photos, etc. I recorded him screaming at me and hitting me multiple times (on the morning that i moved out of the house & left). From what I have googled, it is not legal to record without consent (punishable w/ fine and jail time). I have checked in w/ my attorney on this, also checking in w/ local DV resources where I live to determine how to proceed. Attorney is checking w/ other officials for official info on this.
Attorney has suggested RO will benefit me in alimony hearing; I am considering filing one of these & spouse will be held somewhat accountable/need to pay me more.
Any ideas on this?
Edited: I also want to add, since this is in the abuse section, I did not call the police on the day that I moved out of the house because of a previous incident where I did call the police. The police kept me outside & questioned me, and my spouse, then told me I was mistaken about being hit that morning. When I went back inside, the police were having coffee w/ my abuser (ever the charmer) and he was bragging about his beautiful, big house & perfect career/life (other than the marriage problems). I was too intimidated to try that one again.
Thanks.
I am married, and I moved out of marital home, I have filed for a separation (for now, I plan to utilize the insurance benefits). Court date for spousal support/alimony is coming up in a few weeks.
Spouse has committed 5+ acts of domestic violence against me. I have not filed for a RO as of present due to lack of concrete evidence (that I can share). I did not take photos, etc. I recorded him screaming at me and hitting me multiple times (on the morning that i moved out of the house & left). From what I have googled, it is not legal to record without consent (punishable w/ fine and jail time). I have checked in w/ my attorney on this, also checking in w/ local DV resources where I live to determine how to proceed. Attorney is checking w/ other officials for official info on this.
Attorney has suggested RO will benefit me in alimony hearing; I am considering filing one of these & spouse will be held somewhat accountable/need to pay me more.
Any ideas on this?
Edited: I also want to add, since this is in the abuse section, I did not call the police on the day that I moved out of the house because of a previous incident where I did call the police. The police kept me outside & questioned me, and my spouse, then told me I was mistaken about being hit that morning. When I went back inside, the police were having coffee w/ my abuser (ever the charmer) and he was bragging about his beautiful, big house & perfect career/life (other than the marriage problems). I was too intimidated to try that one again.
Thanks.
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