What is the name of your state? vt since no one has answered my question yet from my first thread, let me ask this. Can a stepparent legally sign school registrations, emergency forms, medical and such without notifying a non custodial parent? my thread of schools responsibility tells all of what I went through. Can I as a non custodial parent ask that dad signs, not her, and that I am notified if dad cannot be located as a second person before the stepmom??? thanks faith